and drew's - She knows how to deal with problems and solve them. It's not about bitching and complaining with no action. She can identify an issue and fix it without a huge "why me" event.

man u lucky sob...i would gladly trade so many of the other qualities just for that one

 

So one would assume your lady is giving you problems?? And that's why youre asking

 

you still with the same chick Pablo?

if you are, bounce the fuck out of there, seems like you always complain about her.

 

My wife is very giving. That's probably one reason why she's such an amazing nurse. Seriously though, she's gotta be the most selfless person I've ever met.

We're both very similar in our personalities. She's mature and takes care of responsibilites but also isn't afraid to act goofy and joke around.

Take for example, on my honeymoon. My favorite time the entire trip is probably when we were hanging out by the hotel pool, freestyle rapping about the people we saw around us. She didn't judge me for being cheesy. She just went with it and it was great. Plus, she was actually pretty good. :chuckles:

 

yes same chick phat. i'm not complaining, she has her positive qualities too - the one that i quoted drew though...thats a big cause of 95% of our quarrels

i make these threads because the grass is always greener

 

Oh I was just curious I wasnt being mean :]

I find myself being like that.

I mostly complain about work. I love working here but I hate my actual job Im coming to find. but it's hard for me because I work for mah mere and Im not exactly sure how and when to tell her 'I like working here and for you...but I hate my actual job title, and I never want to own this place like you and everyone else thinks Im going/want to.'...Im too afraid to hurt other peoples feelings or let other people down..therefore....making it tougher for me internally. Im having pretty serious career-move-making inner-turmoil

Is she complaining about something serious like work or something?? Or is it just her complaining about petty stupid crap that no one would ever really care about?

 

women bitch, it's what they do

that's why jesus invented the open handed slap

 

your complaints about work - they seem more serious.

i'm frustrated because we've been together 6+ years now - and there really hasnt been any big changes career wise. well recently she finally found her niche in nursing school - but whattya know - shes complaining about that too.

you'll continue to see these threads until shes finally on her feet.

in her credit, she knows how taxing it is for me to be in a relationship where i have to support her and not be able to do the cool things that other couples get to do - traveling/going out/etc - shes fully aware that i'm growing tiresome of waiting for her to get on her feet.

i would have peaced out long time ago if it wasnt for that. i've been on her end of the table (being broke/jobless) being with someone else and definitely isnt easy.

 

Well
Why doesnt she get a PT job or a job that isnt really a "Career"..but a job nonetheless...AKA waitressing, retail sales, or even finding receptionist work at a place like a car dealer or anywhere really??? Until she finds her "niche" Its one thing if shes working and dabbling in different things to find out what she wants..its another if she's kind of using that as an excuse to not HAVE a job.

I havent really found mine. I find myself liking the insurance field...but I actually liked it better when I was the receptionist, with more advanced "receptionist" tasks. Id like to keep my license and all that..but I just dont like being a full-swing agent/csr. There are only 2 of us for personal lines...so its a bit overwhelming sometimes. Right now Im working on eight new business prospects, 2 or 3 current clients whom Im re-writing their policies..plus all my other policy-upkeep duties, which is actually alot of damn work. Its really tiring and I dont wanna do this forever

 

Similar to Drew as well.

- She shows that she sincerely loves me.

- Let's me be me, example. Has no problem with sitting on the couch watching me do my Dynamis runs every saturday. Get's into playing video games with me, such as L4D. I really like the fact that i can just be me around her. I can fart, curse and pig out around her. She will also watch Anime with me. We watched and loved Eureka Seven and also thoroughly enjoyed Full Metal Alchemist.

- Even though i know she can't afford to buy me things at the current time due to not having a job, i know she will reciprocate out the ass when she gets a job. I can foresee a Brave Maximus in my future :love:

- She likes to cuddle on the couch and we all know, i'm a cuddler.

- Honestly, i'm an asshole to her sometimes, it's not that i want to be, it's just who i am. So she knows however i may be at the time, i truely lover and she understands that.

- Biggest thing is she gets along with my family. That's a big thing with me, she might be quiet when she first meets you, but she'll open up at the same time.

- She appreciates and never takes for granted anything i do for her. Whether it be buying her something expensive to just a simple kiss when she wakes up, she always smiles afterwards.

- Willing to try alot of things. Only thing i've ever found her not willing to do is play Final Fantasy, and i honestly don't blame her.

- She might not be perfect but she's extremely close in my eyes.