Originally Posted by
Spec R
your complaints about work - they seem more serious.
i'm frustrated because we've been together 6+ years now - and there really hasnt been any big changes career wise. well recently she finally found her niche in nursing school - but whattya know - shes complaining about that too.
you'll continue to see these threads until shes finally on her feet.
in her credit, she knows how taxing it is for me to be in a relationship where i have to support her and not be able to do the cool things that other couples get to do - traveling/going out/etc - shes fully aware that i'm growing tiresome of waiting for her to get on her feet.
i would have peaced out long time ago if it wasnt for that. i've been on her end of the table (being broke/jobless) being with someone else and definitely isnt easy.
Well
Why doesnt she get a PT job or a job that isnt really a "Career"..but a job nonetheless...AKA waitressing, retail sales, or even finding receptionist work at a place like a car dealer or anywhere really??? Until she finds her "niche" Its one thing if shes working and dabbling in different things to find out what she wants..its another if she's kind of using that as an excuse to not HAVE a job.
I havent really found mine. I find myself liking the insurance field...but I actually liked it better when I was the receptionist, with more advanced "receptionist" tasks. Id like to keep my license and all that..but I just dont like being a full-swing agent/csr. There are only 2 of us for personal lines...so its a bit overwhelming sometimes. Right now Im working on eight new business prospects, 2 or 3 current clients whom Im re-writing their policies..plus all my other policy-upkeep duties, which is actually alot of damn work. Its really tiring and I dont wanna do this forever