Originally Posted by
CuppyCake
Oh I was just curious I wasnt being mean :]
I find myself being like that.
I mostly complain about work. I love working here but I hate my actual job Im coming to find. but it's hard for me because I work for mah mere and Im not exactly sure how and when to tell her 'I like working here and for you...but I hate my actual job title, and I never want to own this place like you and everyone else thinks Im going/want to.'...Im too afraid to hurt other peoples feelings or let other people down..therefore....making it tougher for me internally. Im having pretty serious career-move-making inner-turmoil
Is she complaining about something serious like work or something?? Or is it just her complaining about petty stupid crap that no one would ever really care about?
your complaints about work - they seem more serious.
i'm frustrated because we've been together 6+ years now - and there really hasnt been any big changes career wise. well recently she finally found her niche in nursing school - but whattya know - shes complaining about that too.
you'll continue to see these threads until shes finally on her feet.
in her credit, she knows how taxing it is for me to be in a relationship where i have to support her and not be able to do the cool things that other couples get to do - traveling/going out/etc - shes fully aware that i'm growing tiresome of waiting for her to get on her feet.
i would have peaced out long time ago if it wasnt for that. i've been on her end of the table (being broke/jobless) being with someone else and definitely isnt easy.