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I don't owe him anything
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"guy's" code of conduct question...

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Old Jan 6, 2008 | 07:08 PM
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Default "guy's" code of conduct question...

girl i know who still works at club is recently single, flirts alot & asked me to dinner.....here's the scenerio:

when i first started working at the club, she started a week or 2 after me. she worked the register & i checked IDs & did wristbands for the over 21s. there was mild flirting back then. we never hooked up cause i was seeing somebody else. i then moved off the register & moved to the re-entry door & then to roof security.

shortly after i moved to roof security, a guy who was a semi-regular started working as a porter/barback & they started dating. nice guy...we chatted when he came up to clean up over the course of the evenings. she & i continued to talk & would hang out on off nites.

well this weekend, she informs me that they broke up & asked me for my number, so i gave it to her. there has been alot of cell-text flirting & she asked me when we were gonna go out......

1) the guy is an "aquaintence" & not really a friend per say....not somebody i'd really hang out with if i hadn't known him from being a coworker

2) he broke up with her cause he's been scheming on some other girl

3) she's pursued me

sooooooo, do i really owe him the "guy's code" of not going out with her at all or even asking "permission" first?
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Old Jan 6, 2008 | 07:09 PM
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who's bigger?
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Old Jan 6, 2008 | 07:10 PM
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He sounds like scum. I hate cheaters.


Go after her, no questions asked.
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Old Jan 6, 2008 | 07:12 PM
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Originally Posted by reno96teg
who's bigger?
in what sense??? :rick: LOL

i'm taller & weigh more
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Old Jan 6, 2008 | 07:12 PM
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put it in her ass, video tape it, send it to the ex, profit?
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Old Jan 6, 2008 | 07:18 PM
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No friend no care, one mans trash is another mans treasureh:
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Old Jan 6, 2008 | 07:19 PM
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i bet you thought i was gonna make a thread w/out a pic????
:slap: LOL

she's not the average hotty i know, but i think she's cute as hell, has a wicked sense of humor, & we click really well......

only pic i could find
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Old Jan 6, 2008 | 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted by TeggerLS
No friend no care, one mans trash is another mans treasureh:
therein lies my conflict......we are technically "friends" but then again not so much

:dunno:
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Old Jan 6, 2008 | 07:21 PM
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1) You met her first.
2) HE dumped her.
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Old Jan 6, 2008 | 07:24 PM
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Originally Posted by spanky
1) You met her first.
2) HE dumped her.
what he said, why are you waiting?
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