Came in here to post this. Technically you have dibs because you knew her first. If he isnt your friend then you dont owe him anything. I personally wouldnt ever date or scheme on a girl my friend was with or had dated. If you just know him from working with him a little but you arent really friends then go for the chick. /run on sentence

 

yea. i concur

 

dude hes not your friend so fuck it, go out with her and have a good time and remember to post nudes when you bring back to your place

 

he's not your friend, you don't owe him shit.

 

You only live once? So save yourself the regret and do what everyone here says. h:

 

Yea. You don't owe him anything. First off he's an ex-coworker... and second if hes scheming... then he doesn't deserve the respect anyways.

 

You dont have to worry about the "guys code" if hes dead.

 

Even though I feel you don't owe him anything, out of respect, I would keep it on the dl for a while. Nobody likes their ex flaunted on someone else's arm.

 

i said keep it on the DL but im starting to agree with everyone else because he isn't your friend so you don't owe him shit

 

go for it. you and him still work together?