he's the one dating my ex, but whatever

 

Oh in that case, slit his throat.

Do you care that he's dating your ex or not?

 

nah, i don't care. it's just sad that he doesn't want to hang out anymore. the ex and i are even more friends than the guy and me.

 

ya see, and you want to punch him the face dont you? because i know i would. so in the end if cant see that its wrong then he wasnt a good friend to begin with. so fuck him and her.

 

should have said that in the first place... his fault for not being friends with you over dumb shit...

 

then in that case, your friend broke the man code and the truth is revealed... he really wasnt your friend.

 

i didn't feel it necessary, i just wanted general opinions.

 

No not really

According to your story there is dating of a friends ex going on, this is man code rule number two right behind not dating a friends sister (many consider it the same rule).

Once that is broke there is no friendship to be had really and if there is it is on very shaky ground.

Example:

A good friend (friend 1) I wheel with and his gf of 5 years broke up recently. His best friend (friend 2) and her started dating.

So friend 1 continues his friendship with friend 2 as though nothing happens. One day we are deep in the rocks and friend 2 jokingly calls friend 1 a pussy for not making a climb, we all laugh and move on....friend 1 comes out of his buggy swinging hard at friend 2 and we are left to break it up.

yeah shit gets twisted fast in this kind of situation.

 

i just meant that you guys think i'm dating his ex when it's the other way around.

 

You didn't specify that. Then he broke the man code, unless you're also dating HIS ex...in which case, you both did.

Any "friend" who dates another friend or best friend's ex-gf isn't really your friend.