how soon is too soon...
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From: St. John's, Newfoundland
how soon is too soon...
to call?
met a girl last night, an absolute rocket..she gave me her number and told me to give her a call...
so im thinkin, when should i call?
met a girl last night, an absolute rocket..she gave me her number and told me to give her a call...
so im thinkin, when should i call?
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There are two rules you must follow in this.
Rule 1: The industry standard minimum waiting period is 2 days. For example if you get a number on a Friday, the soonest you can call is the following Sunday.
Rule 2: Initiating the making of plans for dates 1 through 3 with a new girl expires at 5:00 pm on the Wednesday before a weekend. Anything after that is technically a booty call.
Based on these rules, the sweet spot is Tuesday evening or Wednesday before 5:00 pm.
Rule 1: The industry standard minimum waiting period is 2 days. For example if you get a number on a Friday, the soonest you can call is the following Sunday.
Rule 2: Initiating the making of plans for dates 1 through 3 with a new girl expires at 5:00 pm on the Wednesday before a weekend. Anything after that is technically a booty call.
Based on these rules, the sweet spot is Tuesday evening or Wednesday before 5:00 pm.
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Hell I would have just asked her if she wanted to go fuck right when she was giving me her number.
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i'm with john....2 days minimum, but 3 is pushing it
there are exceptions tho....like if there is a concert or something that doesn't happen everyday, then next day can be justified....especially if there was great chemistry.
if you had made the first move & asked for her number, then caution is your rule of thumb, it seems to me that she made the effort by giving you her number & telling you to call her, then she put up the effort......she's basically standing there w/ the lil flashlights waving you in LOL
there are exceptions tho....like if there is a concert or something that doesn't happen everyday, then next day can be justified....especially if there was great chemistry.
if you had made the first move & asked for her number, then caution is your rule of thumb, it seems to me that she made the effort by giving you her number & telling you to call her, then she put up the effort......she's basically standing there w/ the lil flashlights waving you in LOL
Last edited by James3370; Dec 9, 2006 at 09:25 AM.
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well i got her number 2 am saturday morning, maybe i should give her a call monday night/tuesday afternoon....
im figuring that i should pop by one night at work, for some reason it seems women dig the boys in blue, haha...
i was gonna say wait a few days, but i didnt want to go too long and totally have her feeling dropped.
im figuring that i should pop by one night at work, for some reason it seems women dig the boys in blue, haha...
i was gonna say wait a few days, but i didnt want to go too long and totally have her feeling dropped.