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haha...im a stick with white girls haha.. but ill keep that in mind... but shit i just dont know what to think.... this girl has my heart and she is like abusing the privledge
my last gf did that.... right after homecoming.. and now i have this girl...she's amazing she swears on her life she never has cheated on me or is going to...but its just a bad feeling you know?
shes been cheating on you and is just telling you that so she can reassure you that everything is ok....
start following her around and I'll bet you'll catch her under some golfer dude named brett h:
A happy medium needs to be struck. My gf is in FL while I'm in in NC. She'll be moving up here in about a month, in the meantime we talk about twice a week and text message eachother on our free moments. To me, this is a happy medium. I trust her, she trusts me. She doesn't have to call me every second. I feel your pain, I'm not a phone person either. For some reason or another, it makes me extremely tired. I don't know why, so instead we talk on Yahoo or text message at night when we're both in for the night. If a happy medium cannot be made, I don't see a bright future. You both may really love eachother, but talking ALL the time isn't the best thing for either of you. See if the both of you can come up with some kind of alternative to talking all the time. AIM, Yahoo, Webcam(applies to both), text message. It's never bad to have a little bit of freedom every once in a while.
have you tried explaining it to her in a manner in which a girl would understand? Or have you just yelled at her about space and expected her to understand you want a happy medium? The way I approach talking to girlfriends about such topics, is treat them like small children..you have to be very direct and speak in small words and make sure they understand perfectly and that they dont have any questions. Then take them out for ice cream.
Last edited by Civic2Scooby; Jun 25, 2006 at 09:50 AM.
If she really loves you, and you both truly discuss it like adults, she should understand. There's nothing wrong with her missing you and vice-versa, but every human being needs to be alone sometimes. And when I say sometimes, I mean there are times during the day that I like being down in my basement working on my bikes or out working on my car. Every second of her and your day does not need to consist of you and her on the phone. Luckily, my girlfriend is asian and likes cars just as much as me and likes to talk about them .
it's normal dude... this girl has mad love for you. She needs to feel loved too. make her feel like you miss her but you are busy, when talking on the phone be nice, give her some attention dont be watching porn and shit while you talking on the phone. let me ask you this, you like this girl right? ever felt like she isint giving you enough attention?