we been talking for 9 months and i just dont wanna throw it away..she means alot to me

 

ummm...not THAT whodini...

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=whodini

 

OHHH the philly fake out..

 

A happy medium needs to be struck. My gf is in FL while I'm in in NC. She'll be moving up here in about a month, in the meantime we talk about twice a week and text message eachother on our free moments. To me, this is a happy medium. I trust her, she trusts me. She doesn't have to call me every second. I feel your pain, I'm not a phone person either. For some reason or another, it makes me extremely tired. I don't know why, so instead we talk on Yahoo or text message at night when we're both in for the night. If a happy medium cannot be made, I don't see a bright future. You both may really love eachother, but talking ALL the time isn't the best thing for either of you. See if the both of you can come up with some kind of alternative to talking all the time. AIM, Yahoo, Webcam(applies to both), text message. It's never bad to have a little bit of freedom every once in a while.

 

how profound

 

anyone ever get that feeling that she is with another guy or is cheating on you and like hiding it or it might happen n she hide it?

 

^^^It's one of those feelings that if you've had it happen before, you'll know it right away. I knew it with one of my previous gf that went to cali for a week. I had this feeling about 3 days after she left. She came back, she dumped me. I knew something happened, eventhough she never admitted it.

 

my last gf did that.... right after homecoming.. and now i have this girl...she's amazing she swears on her life she never has cheated on me or is going to...but its just a bad feeling you know?

 

yup...I know. Luckily, I have never gotten that feeling from my gf. Asian girls ftw!!!

 

haha....i just am scared that she might do it and i get hurt again...that will be time number three... after this gf im fucking done.... ill just work n mod my car.. what my buddy does..