Originally Posted by totalimmortal

A happy medium needs to be struck. My gf is in FL while I'm in in NC. She'll be moving up here in about a month, in the meantime we talk about twice a week and text message eachother on our free moments. To me, this is a happy medium. I trust her, she trusts me. She doesn't have to call me every second. I feel your pain, I'm not a phone person either. For some reason or another, it makes me extremely tired. I don't know why, so instead we talk on Yahoo or text message at night when we're both in for the night. If a happy medium cannot be made, I don't see a bright future. You both may really love eachother, but talking ALL the time isn't the best thing for either of you. See if the both of you can come up with some kind of alternative to talking all the time. AIM, Yahoo, Webcam(applies to both), text message. It's never bad to have a little bit of freedom every once in a while.