I'm suprised the case wasn't dismissed when they didn't show up.

 

yeah that's how they normally do it around here, you don't show it gets dismissed. that's bullshit they rescheduled it, but that will say alot for them next time they appear; if they do at all.

 

yea, sounds like the mother and daughter just wanted him to get arrested so they could piss on his cheerios, but don't plan on following through with the case.

 

yea that sounds about right...like mother like daughter

 

they should have the law says you have the right to face your accused, so if they dont show it should be thown out maybe next time it will.

 

the fight between u and the guy, most police do not keep reports unless they see it. they will advise u to get a protective order against him. u r responsible for documenting what is happening. sort of like when neighbors fight and the police r called. they dont make reports on this. they tell them to get p. orders. some states have domestic violence laws. they apply to spouses and s.o.s past and present. your state may mandate u be arrested. that doesnt mean u did anything. if the mother and daughter are discovered to have lied they will be in legal trouble. they will be financially responsible for the time and personnel used to investigate the entire procedure. in some states the ex cannot drop charges after a cooling off period if its abuse related. even if she cooled off and changed her mind or that it didnt happen. she would have to admit it didnt happen then they would be dismissed. she will also have to have photographed evidence done in a timely matter by a licensed doctor. it would be wise to get a lawyer. he or she will answer your questions and guide you through this process. speculation just wastes time. there are things u need to be doing in a timely matter to help your side.

 

do u think they didnt dismiss it because i was arrested the night before? and maybe the ex and her mom werent notified?

though when i was called up to go infront of the judge, this guy on my left hand side said they were still trying to get in touch with the "victim". 3 hours later i was called up again and they still didnt show up.

they didnt give me any type of documentation, they verbaly told me i wasnt eligible for a restraining order.

and as for the police report on my car being keyed, i had no proof it was her. it obviously was but w/e.

 

oh and i got the public defender to defend me, i dont think i can afford a real lawyer right now......

 

update

i had my little sister call and talk to her, she convinced her to drop the charges.......

 

oh my :rofl: :rofl:

call your lawyer, bud.

:edit:nevermind. Woot for your sister... now you can get payback