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Some people just start early. There's nothing wrong with that and don't feel like you've ever missed out on anything. The day will come when your kids are all grown up with families and you'll still be young enough to enjoy life.

I'll be 50+ with a 15 year old that has daddy issues. :a:

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4 more years? I'm pretty sure there are more positives in the relationship than negatives ... that's why you're still with her now.

It's all about building a bridge of compromise between your two lives. When you both cross the bridge, burn the fucker down and never go back to where you came from.

 

good so burn the fucking compromise bridge down GOT IT! and i cant see myself breaking up with her...it's just hard at time, and the next 4 years will be easyer i think cause she's doin her masters not as much classes more work she needs to do a reaserch project or something like that h:

 

Just make sure your life is in order (career/financially) before you take the next step in a relationship. While it's true my wife & I got married young, we had both wrapped up school and had secure full time jobs.
Just don't end up like my sister in-law and brother in-law who are both 24 and have been married 3 years. Neither of them has a job and they're living with her parents. Actually, he hasn't even been employed in the 3 years they've been married and has made no effort to change that.

And the kid will rebel by taking a box cutter to all the tape on your MISB Transformers.

 

Not a big deal at all.

 

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We (girlfriend and I) aren't quite there yet, but I do think it is important to move on with life. I've seen people who can't quite transition between college and life outside of college. You can't live to your potential being in the past ... get over things, move on, learn something new.

Hell, I know people who still talk about high school like it was yesterday ... like it actually still matters :a:

A big step is getting over her party stage.

Everybody goes though that time where you're absolutely living for the party. I used to drive 3 hours into the heart of Wisconsin to rave my balls off till 6am, drive back to Chicago by 9am ... sleep ... repeat in 12 hours.

<--- *taking notes*

I'll actually use the liquor cabinet for toys and leave booze out to play with. :chuckles:

 

i dated a 24 year old at 18!

 

nah...even though they all wanted me to...but now since they're 18+ im gonna violate them all

 

yea i kind of dated a 26 yr old when i was 16.....

 

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As stated above....it just depends on maturity.