Originally Posted by Tark
good so burn the fucking compromise bridge down GOT IT!
:chuckles:
We (girlfriend and I) aren't quite there yet, but I do think it is important to move on with life. I've seen people who can't quite transition between college and life outside of college. You can't live to your potential being in the past ... get over things, move on, learn something new.
Hell, I know people who still talk about high school like it was yesterday ... like it actually still matters :a:
Originally Posted by Tark
and i cant see myself breaking up with her...it's just hard at time, and the next 4 years will be easyer i think cause she's doin her masters not as much classes more work she needs to do a reaserch project or something like that
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A big step is getting over her party stage.
Everybody goes though that time where you're absolutely living for the party. I used to drive 3 hours into the heart of Wisconsin to rave my balls off till 6am, drive back to Chicago by 9am ... sleep ... repeat in 12 hours.
Originally Posted by Hambone
Just make sure your life is in order (career/financially) before you take the next step in a relationship. While it's true my wife & I got married young, we had both wrapped up school and had secure full time jobs.
Just don't end up like my sister in-law and brother in-law who are both 24 and have been married 3 years. Neither of them has a job and they're living with her parents. Actually, he hasn't even been employed in the 3 years they've been married and has made no effort to change that.
<--- *taking notes*
Originally Posted by Hambone
And the kid will rebel by taking a box cutter to all the tape on your MISB Transformers.
I'll actually use the liquor cabinet for toys and leave booze out to play with. :chuckles: