How to get over a break-up
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Originally Posted by EriksShadow
Jae.. I'm gonna give you my upmost honest opinion. You're a good kid.. but, from our conversations, I get the feeling you NEED to be in a relationship. It has been the topic of many of our IMs. And to be honest.. I personally think you need to work on you right now. I've been handed two of the most shittiest breakups I've ever heard of. And what did I do? I dragged myself up by the shirtcollar, brushed myself off, and concentrated on me. I treated myself.. pampered myself.. and just basically found complete happiness in the joys of being single. And right now.. that's perfectly okay for me. I see my friends deal with the relationship bullshit.. and it just doesn't appeal to me at the moment. I wanna do things for me. Yeah.. it's okay to dwell and pine for a little bit. But dude... even after a two year relationship.. the most dwelling I did was four months. And even THAT was too much. Work on you... be happy with who you are. Focus on what YOU want to do. Don't work hard to find another relationship. It's okay to be single. Find yourself.. and eventually.. love will find you when you least expect it.
Trust me bro... I wouldn't steer you wrong.
Trust me bro... I wouldn't steer you wrong.
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Originally Posted by IluvJae
Yea im just use to a lifestyle of not taking shit from no one, I also never hold or bite my tounge. I KEEPS IT REAL :chuckles: But i guess this is what happens...when keeping it real...goes wrong. If she wouldnt have called me a dick...then none of this would have transpired. I know i gotta move on. Its weird. I can see theres another force in this that has a penis. I also know that alot of people aint going to deal with the stuff that we went through together. But her lost.....Its one thing to break up with someone. But its another thing to tell them that all feelings you had for them is gone.
It just sux cus it seems all my relationships fail at the 6month period. This has like been the story of my life.
It just sux cus it seems all my relationships fail at the 6month period. This has like been the story of my life.
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Sorry to hear that bro. I think its a good time to take a quick trip with some old school friends and make memories.
Nothings going to help you forget, but good company and a "new start" can help you "move on".
Tough break mang.
Jay
Nothings going to help you forget, but good company and a "new start" can help you "move on".
Tough break mang.
Jay
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Originally Posted by IluvJae
I wish i had a time machine that would let me go forward in time to see how i come out in life :wtc:
Originally Posted by Hambone
Well there's something to keep you busy to take your mind off of things. Buy that Civic and work on making a time machine out of it. :goodjob:
Go on a man date with a bunch of your friends, go bowling or something. I've never had a girlfriend so I don't know quite what you're going through but I've had best friends just drop me like last weeks too thin gravy and too salty mashed potatos, actually one because I said f you to her.
When I start to feel down I listen to some classic rock or watch a good movie.
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Originally Posted by RB
Treated her good as in tried to, but failed, to hook up w/ some other chick at a party?
We werent together when i tried to get with that chick. She wanted to have a break and that happened the nite before the party. That why i ended up going to the party. Just yesterday she told me it was done for good
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sorry to hear about that Jae. dont worry man, she wasnt worth your time then if she did this shit to you. move on man and keep your head high.
if ya need a talk, you know where to find me.
if ya need a talk, you know where to find me.
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