Originally Posted by EriksShadow
Jae.. I'm gonna give you my upmost honest opinion. You're a good kid.. but, from our conversations, I get the feeling you NEED to be in a relationship. It has been the topic of many of our IMs. And to be honest.. I personally think you need to work on you right now. I've been handed two of the most shittiest breakups I've ever heard of. And what did I do? I dragged myself up by the shirtcollar, brushed myself off, and concentrated on me. I treated myself.. pampered myself.. and just basically found complete happiness in the joys of being single. And right now.. that's perfectly okay for me. I see my friends deal with the relationship bullshit.. and it just doesn't appeal to me at the moment. I wanna do things for me. Yeah.. it's okay to dwell and pine for a little bit. But dude... even after a two year relationship.. the most dwelling I did was four months. And even THAT was too much. Work on you... be happy with who you are. Focus on what YOU want to do. Don't work hard to find another relationship. It's okay to be single. Find yourself.. and eventually.. love will find you when you least expect it.
Trust me bro... I wouldn't steer you wrong.
Yea i actually think what happens is im use to having my brother there with me. But once he got locked up, i had to look to someone else to talk to. My friends are here but they all live there lives and they all have girlfriends and relationships taht are doing well. In a way i guess i just feel left out. Then sitting at home in my apt. does help out at all as well. Thats why im looking forward to moving out to a new apt so that i can get something bigger and have friends over. I notice when i have a car im not as likely to be dependant.