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Old Sep 19, 2005 | 04:38 AM
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Originally Posted by HondaKitten
you just said F you and she broke up with you? Maybe there was something else and that was her way out.....

Anyways Jae, the best thing to do is to keep your mind off it by doing other things with friends and going out. And though all guys think screwing a lot of girls right after is the best thing, in the end it's really not. but not like you'll listen that advice or anything.

How you figure i wont listen.....but anyway thanx. Yea andrew knows the full specs but basically she called me a dick and i replied with a F you and that was it. It was a snowball affect and everything went downhill from there.
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Old Sep 19, 2005 | 05:10 AM
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Originally Posted by Hambone
Girls come and go. Keep yourself busy doing stuff you enjoy.
:yes:

This isn't the last time this will happen. Just learn how to detach from the memories, realize she's a bitch, and move on.

She said some retarded things, and from an outside view ... she's :screwy:
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Old Sep 19, 2005 | 05:14 AM
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Originally Posted by e3NiNe
:yes:

This isn't the last time this will happen. Just learn how to detach from the memories, realize she's a bitch, and move on.

She said some retarded things, and from an outside view ... she's :screwy:

Yea its like everything in my apt reminds me of her...the shower curtains the toothbrush...toothpaste...everything :wtc: I'll get through this though. Its just rough as i spent alot of $$$$$$$$$$$$$ and alot of my time.
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Old Sep 19, 2005 | 05:16 AM
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Sucks...but she's damaged goods anyway. ...Which is not a judgement of her in any way at all, I just mean that she might have some serious baggage that would surface later from her previous relationship or something like that.
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Old Sep 19, 2005 | 05:18 AM
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Originally Posted by IluvJae
Its just rough as i spent alot of $$$$$$$$$$$$$ and alot of my time.
Live and learn man.


Money shouldn't hold your relationship in a good place. She should like you if you spend $1 on a McDonalds dinner, or $15 on a steak dinner.

You got her an iPod ... car audio stuff ... night out ... nights in ... and the second you started to focus on yourself to make you happy (transformers) ... she's gone?

It makes no sense.

Use this logic as fuel for your detachment process. Sorry man, she's a gold digging bitch.
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Old Sep 19, 2005 | 05:29 AM
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This can mean only one thing.


The playa is back :eek4:
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Old Sep 19, 2005 | 05:30 AM
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Originally Posted by IluvJae
Yea its like everything in my apt reminds me of her...the shower curtains the toothbrush...toothpaste...everything :wtc: I'll get through this though. Its just rough as i spent alot of $$$$$$$$$$$$$ and alot of my time.
It'll all pass in time. Keep your head up, realize that she was the one with the issues, and then move along. I know it's easier said than done. When you least expect it the right girl will come along, kick you in the nuts, and take over your life. And you'll love every minute of it.
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Old Sep 19, 2005 | 05:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Hambone
When you least expect it the right girl will come along, kick you in the nuts, and take over your life. And you'll love every minute of it.
From people who are married, to people about to be ... that's the common story.

"I met her/him when I wasn't looking"


You can't go into your next relationship miserable hoping for that one person to make you complete. You need to go into your next relationship happy, with the other person only enhancing your life experience at the moment.

Jae, focus on yourself. Be selfish, do things you like ... think about you first.
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Old Sep 19, 2005 | 05:45 AM
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Originally Posted by e3NiNe
From people who are married, to people about to be ... that's the common story.

"I met her/him when I wasn't looking"


You can't go into your next relationship miserable hoping for that one person to make you complete. You need to go into your next relationship happy, with the other person only enhancing your life experience at the moment.

Jae, focus on yourself. Be selfish, do things you like ... think about you first.
Yea thats why im thinking about just going and picking up that 88 civic. I mean 177k on the dash...but i just need something else to think about...i just cant be sitting at home like ive been. The more i sit at home, the more i say man i remember when we did this and i remember that and thats when i :wtc:

Originally Posted by Nelson
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The playa is back :eek4:
Yea i just might be back....:rick:
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Old Sep 19, 2005 | 06:02 AM
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Jae there definitely had to be something else. She probably just used that as an excuse. You deserve better bro. You'll feel better in time man. You always have new prospects, I say go out and bang em
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