i just got off 3 or 4 weeks of depression, and i finally ended it by telling this chick (main reason) and my best friend (it was kinda a triangle) that i wasn't going to have them as part of my life anymore. They said some questionable, hurtful things that you cant just forgive right away. Unfortunately my best friend hopes we can be on good terms by graduation day..which is like 1 and a half school years away. And the chick, well who knows, i'm pretty sure she hates me now(i dunno why, but that makes my decision easier) sure i miss the 2 of dem, but i told myself no turning back, no second chances, casue it'll just depress me again..should i risk depression again to try and gain back 2 friends, or just move on and let the feeling of loss die away, casue i know it will eventually....:dunno:

 

Personally I would leave an open door, but have them seek you, not the other way around. It's wrong to completely shut anyone out of your life with the idea of never letting them back in it again.

But they have to come to you on their own terms. I think that'd be the best IMO. :dunno:

 

but if they come back, should i let them and risk depression

 

I'd say do it. You just have to be careful that whatever happened before won't happen again (such as the reason why you left them). Just be wary, but go for it.

 

i give it some thought, but i'm to happy with no depression right now, so a risk that big ain't gonna happen...thx though, i totally respect wut u saying