mel and i got in a fight today. we fight alot. its getting pretty hard. today she told me that she doesn't want to be with me any more. weve been together for over 4 years off and on and we're supposed to get married in february. the depressing part is that it doesn't really bother me. every time we broke up before, i got really upset. this time, i think i'll let her do what she wants. if she wants to end it, fine. i dont want to put myself thru that misery again.

she says i'm too flirtatious, becuse when i see chicks i know i hug them. ive been doing that all my life, its instinct. so many things i've changed about myself to comply with her, but when i tell her tings that she does that makes me upset, she gets mad at me and says that she can't change and I shoudln't expect her to change, even though I change for her.

when we get in fights, i feel all bad because she starts crying and says that shes not good for me and all this baloney. what should i do? i really love her, and want ot be with her ,but i can't stand the constant fighting. we fight every day, over stupid ****. even when we try not to fight, something happens and we do

i'm sick of it

 

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Well...if you guys are together everyday, maybe it's time be alone for a day if you have to. Some time alone to think over things, it might even make you guys realize some things that you haven't noticed before when you guys are together...and maybe it can be fixed from there. If you guys talk now, without that time alone, the fighting would probably start

 

Spanky I think yall need some time apart. A week apart...two weeks apart...however long it takes. NO communication....then decide what you guy's should do

 

women = problems

we all know this, but in the end they always get you

 

it sounds like you guys are married already

 

you know...if u do really love her...
please b optimistic about this...
sure women are stubborn n difficult to deal with at times...
but if you know her weak spot...she'll melt...
to stop the constant bickering n fighting over senseless things...
bring the magic back....
be spontaneous again...show her that its fun...and show her that you're what she needs...
once she realizes that....she'll slowly change herself...
i think its called compromise....
everyone has flaws...but if u love her...love her for her flaws...
she'll do the same

 

take a deep breath and think about it. this decision will undoubtedly determine the rest of your life

 

why have u guys broken up for in the past? just wondering, and i thats right man, they never change yet we will flip upside down and backwards to change for them!!!! let me know

 

o yea, when we fight ( me and my girl) who i've been with for 2 years i sometimes want to say lets take a break from each other, because im still young, and want to experience other ****...but she's my girl, my best friend, you know man? she know every thing bout me...

 

there's really nothing worse than carrying on a dead relationship. It works on some level still, but never like it used to be. Walk away, you will feel better. Ya gotta just let go, no contact, doenst have to mean you dont love her still or never did, its just better off for you at first. Its a small world anyways, there are always second chances.

With my ex (we all know the story) I love her still, but i cant be with her. And i dont want to. I never realized how ****ty she was to me untill i started dating a normal girl, and life is fun again. Its wierd how your perspective changes when you're not connected at the hip anymore. It may suprise you.