mel and i got in a fight today. we fight alot. its getting pretty hard. today she told me that she doesn't want to be with me any more. weve been together for over 4 years off and on and we're supposed to get married in february. the depressing part is that it doesn't really bother me. every time we broke up before, i got really upset. this time, i think i'll let her do what she wants. if she wants to end it, fine. i dont want to put myself thru that misery again.

she says i'm too flirtatious, becuse when i see chicks i know i hug them. ive been doing that all my life, its instinct. so many things i've changed about myself to comply with her, but when i tell her tings that she does that makes me upset, she gets mad at me and says that she can't change and I shoudln't expect her to change, even though I change for her.

when we get in fights, i feel all bad because she starts crying and says that shes not good for me and all this baloney. what should i do? i really love her, and want ot be with her ,but i can't stand the constant fighting. we fight every day, over stupid ****. even when we try not to fight, something happens and we do

i'm sick of it