we jus looking out for you

 

my gf and i have been together for almost three years and yes when we are apart...you feel almost like a lonliness i think because you spend so much time, love, and devotion to that special someone that when they arent there, you feel like somethings missing! i felt that way when i first started going to school...im fine now but at first it was weird being awasy from her all night! :sad:

 

i know.. and i need to hear what you yall are saying... keeps me thinking.. thx

 

been together 9 years but I don't feel "unwhole"

I miss her but I'm still all here

 

im using the wrong words...

its....

missing her with my heart...

 

Yes,

More so at night, when i'm used to sleeping with my G/F.

Less during the day, when all she would normally do is bitch at me


:happysad:

 

are you not together with her? ohh wait yer serving now arent u?

 

We're on winter break from college, I'm in PA where I'm from, she's in NC where she's from.

No, I'm not deployed anywhere.

 

my wife is in Iraq and there are many many nights when I don't wanna go to sleep cause I can't wake up and look at her. Skyler I hear what you are saying, but I'm gonna tell you right now there are some times after you've been together awhile that you are just like I really need to chill with my friends or go for a drive. Just something to get away for awhile. Girls think that when guys do this we are running from them or doing something wrong when generally we are just thinking. But I understand the whole missing her and not liking life very much without her part. Keep in mind we have been together 2 years and within the first week I knew she was the one.

 

I feel the exact same way about my girl...except a few weeks ago we hit a real bad spot and we almost broke up because I was having a personal problem and was causing a series of stupid little fights...then I realized what I was doing, I stopped, and we started realizing how much we meant to each other. It's really scary when you love a person so much that you want to spend all of your free time with her and experience everything with her...because someday it'll all end and it's going to suck, really bad. Whether it happens next month or in 50 years.

This is so how I feel about my girlfriend it isn't even funny. I've never met a person that is so up front with me and doesn't play all those stupid ass games that usually end up in someone getting hurt. And she's helped me learn so much about myself too, and especially how to be a better person...I have so much self confidence now than I did 4 months ago when I met her. We have this connection too...like I never, ever get embarassed around her no matter what I do. I've never felt that way around a girl before, not even close. We always find time to laugh at ourselves and each other, and she's such a good friend to me. There's only one person in the world better at telling me exactly what is going through my head and helping me get through stuff, but that's because he's known me 10 times longer and he's uber smart and almost a psychiatrist.

She's also the only girl I've ever gone out with that I can seriously see spending the rest of my life with...but then I realize that I'm transferring schools next year and I'm either going to have to go through four years of hell only seeing her once every few weeks or I'm going to break up with her before then. Half of me hopes that it isn't like this when I go 550 miles away, because now I can barely go a day without seeing her.