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From: Decatur, IN
Originally posted by 98CoupeV6
Half of me hopes that it isn't like this when I go 550 miles away, because now I can barely go a day without seeing her.
Half of me hopes that it isn't like this when I go 550 miles away, because now I can barely go a day without seeing her.
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From: Deeeeeeeeeeeeeeetroit
Originally posted by supermac88
not trying to be an ass but Iraq compared to 550 miles aint shit. If you really love her then it will be okay just don't do stupid shit that will hurt her and or ruin your relationship man.
not trying to be an ass but Iraq compared to 550 miles aint shit. If you really love her then it will be okay just don't do stupid shit that will hurt her and or ruin your relationship man.
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Originally posted by supermac88
my wife is in Iraq and there are many many nights when I don't wanna go to sleep cause I can't wake up and look at her. Skyler I hear what you are saying, but I'm gonna tell you right now there are some times after you've been together awhile that you are just like I really need to chill with my friends or go for a drive. Just something to get away for awhile. Girls think that when guys do this we are running from them or doing something wrong when generally we are just thinking. But I understand the whole missing her and not liking life very much without her part. Keep in mind we have been together 2 years and within the first week I knew she was the one.
my wife is in Iraq and there are many many nights when I don't wanna go to sleep cause I can't wake up and look at her. Skyler I hear what you are saying, but I'm gonna tell you right now there are some times after you've been together awhile that you are just like I really need to chill with my friends or go for a drive. Just something to get away for awhile. Girls think that when guys do this we are running from them or doing something wrong when generally we are just thinking. But I understand the whole missing her and not liking life very much without her part. Keep in mind we have been together 2 years and within the first week I knew she was the one.
Originally posted by 98CoupeV6
I feel the exact same way about my girl...except a few weeks ago we hit a real bad spot and we almost broke up because I was having a personal problem and was causing a series of stupid little fights...then I realized what I was doing, I stopped, and we started realizing how much we meant to each other. It's really scary when you love a person so much that you want to spend all of your free time with her and experience everything with her...because someday it'll all end and it's going to suck, really bad. Whether it happens next month or in 50 years.
This is so how I feel about my girlfriend it isn't even funny. I've never met a person that is so up front with me and doesn't play all those stupid ass games that usually end up in someone getting hurt. And she's helped me learn so much about myself too, and especially how to be a better person...I have so much self confidence now than I did 4 months ago when I met her. We have this connection too...like I never, ever get embarassed around her no matter what I do. I've never felt that way around a girl before, not even close. We always find time to laugh at ourselves and each other, and she's such a good friend to me. There's only one person in the world better at telling me exactly what is going through my head and helping me get through stuff, but that's because he's known me 10 times longer and he's uber smart and almost a psychiatrist.
She's also the only girl I've ever gone out with that I can seriously see spending the rest of my life with...but then I realize that I'm transferring schools next year and I'm either going to have to go through four years of hell only seeing her once every few weeks or I'm going to break up with her before then. Half of me hopes that it isn't like this when I go 550 miles away, because now I can barely go a day without seeing her.
I feel the exact same way about my girl...except a few weeks ago we hit a real bad spot and we almost broke up because I was having a personal problem and was causing a series of stupid little fights...then I realized what I was doing, I stopped, and we started realizing how much we meant to each other. It's really scary when you love a person so much that you want to spend all of your free time with her and experience everything with her...because someday it'll all end and it's going to suck, really bad. Whether it happens next month or in 50 years.
This is so how I feel about my girlfriend it isn't even funny. I've never met a person that is so up front with me and doesn't play all those stupid ass games that usually end up in someone getting hurt. And she's helped me learn so much about myself too, and especially how to be a better person...I have so much self confidence now than I did 4 months ago when I met her. We have this connection too...like I never, ever get embarassed around her no matter what I do. I've never felt that way around a girl before, not even close. We always find time to laugh at ourselves and each other, and she's such a good friend to me. There's only one person in the world better at telling me exactly what is going through my head and helping me get through stuff, but that's because he's known me 10 times longer and he's uber smart and almost a psychiatrist.
She's also the only girl I've ever gone out with that I can seriously see spending the rest of my life with...but then I realize that I'm transferring schools next year and I'm either going to have to go through four years of hell only seeing her once every few weeks or I'm going to break up with her before then. Half of me hopes that it isn't like this when I go 550 miles away, because now I can barely go a day without seeing her.
... like i said before im really the only thing keeping my gf from going back to chicago to her family... the strongest thing anyways.. we're planning on going for a week come spring, im already saving ...
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From: San Clemente, Ca
Originally posted by tirod˛slc
we do get along really well.. we havent had 1 fight.. granted we've also never lived with one another.... and there isnt an activity, event, experience, etc that i want to experience without her... the way i love her, and she loves me, scares the hell out of me... for a billion different reason... we have all the respect in the world for each other, and there isnt anything we wouldnt do for each other.. i mean g'damn her entire family is in chicago but she's staying here for me, and god knows how many times she's cried for them.... not to mention church, im fawkin going to an LDS church and enjoying it (with her), i have even developed a personal relationship with god because of this woman...
we are seriously meant for each other and i cant believe i just typed that...
we do get along really well.. we havent had 1 fight.. granted we've also never lived with one another.... and there isnt an activity, event, experience, etc that i want to experience without her... the way i love her, and she loves me, scares the hell out of me... for a billion different reason... we have all the respect in the world for each other, and there isnt anything we wouldnt do for each other.. i mean g'damn her entire family is in chicago but she's staying here for me, and god knows how many times she's cried for them.... not to mention church, im fawkin going to an LDS church and enjoying it (with her), i have even developed a personal relationship with god because of this woman...
we are seriously meant for each other and i cant believe i just typed that...
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From: Deeeeeeeeeeeeeeetroit
Originally posted by tirod˛slc
damn bro.... i hope everything works out for ya.. and if its meant to be it will... like i said before im really the only thing keeping my gf from going back to chicago to her family... the strongest thing anyways.. we're planning on going for a week come spring, im already saving ...
damn bro.... i hope everything works out for ya.. and if its meant to be it will
... like i said before im really the only thing keeping my gf from going back to chicago to her family... the strongest thing anyways.. we're planning on going for a week come spring, im already saving ...
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Originally posted by silverbulletchk
Wow my bf is from an LDS church and I went once .. that's it I do not like going .... You must have it bad for this chick,My b/f's mom trys to get me to go all the time too
Wow my bf is from an LDS church and I went once .. that's it I do not like going .... You must have it bad for this chick,My b/f's mom trys to get me to go all the time too
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Originally posted by tirod˛slc
im using the wrong words...
its....
missing her with my heart...
im using the wrong words...
its....
missing her with my heart...
young love :chuckles:
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Originally posted by 98CoupeV6
Yeah thanks man. I'm pretty confident that it will work out, and if it doesn't I'm betting that it'll be pretty mutual. We're taking a trip down to NYC this summer because she's never seen anything higher than a 30 story building...the thought of showing her a game at Yankee Stadium and walking through Wall Street with her and standing on top of the ESB with her gives me goosebumps in some weird way. I've been down there eleventy billion timesh:
Yeah thanks man. I'm pretty confident that it will work out, and if it doesn't I'm betting that it'll be pretty mutual. We're taking a trip down to NYC this summer because she's never seen anything higher than a 30 story building...the thought of showing her a game at Yankee Stadium and walking through Wall Street with her and standing on top of the ESB with her gives me goosebumps in some weird way. I've been down there eleventy billion times
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From: San Clemente, Ca
Originally posted by tirod˛slc
i grew up mormon, still technically mormon, and my entire extended family is strong mormon... mormons are the most misunderstood people and religion.. but we arent going there
i grew up mormon, still technically mormon, and my entire extended family is strong mormon... mormons are the most misunderstood people and religion.. but we arent going there
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Originally posted by silverbulletchk
Well i actually went into the redlands temple (since it was just built and not blessed yet) and I liked it a lot. It got me to do some serious thinking, Especually when we went into the sealing room I was getting really into it and thought about how nice it would be to get sealed to him when we get married, but then in the long wrong I thought about it and decided that I don't really want to live my life the way someone says I should. I have never been into organized religion.
Well i actually went into the redlands temple (since it was just built and not blessed yet) and I liked it a lot. It got me to do some serious thinking, Especually when we went into the sealing room I was getting really into it and thought about how nice it would be to get sealed to him when we get married, but then in the long wrong I thought about it and decided that I don't really want to live my life the way someone says I should. I have never been into organized religion.