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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 03:20 PM
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Originally posted by antarius


In this case, I'd cut my losses and back off though.


I agree:thumbup:
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 03:22 PM
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Well actually she never tried to DATE my friend Chris...she tried to date mike but he blew her off so she moved on... I just happened to be there.. she has only had ONE boyfriend her whole life and he was a twat stick so she had to let him go..

I can't justify wether I'm right or wrong, but I asked him if it was ok and he said yes, he said "I will be mad if you pass her up"...

I keep asking him over and over again and he said he's coo with it, but he just keeps going behind my back and telling people who have nothing to do with the situation everything that is going on...

If she never liked him or doesn't like him...why would it matter what I do help his situation?

Lol I'm not throwing myself at her either, me and her both already established feelings between us but I told her I didn't want to even get intamite or anything because I would feel bad for my friend...
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 03:30 PM
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Your friend says it's ok because he is your friend, bu tmost likely he is not ok with it and everytime you are with her he will not want to be around and everytime he wants to vent he will bring up the time you took that girl.


Keep in mind if a girl says she has only dated one guy but your freind is trying to get with her and his friend did get with her and she wants to get with you she most likely is lying.
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 03:40 PM
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His friend DIDN't get with her...she wanted to but he didn't want to...
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 03:43 PM
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I shall attempt to explain the code of bros before hoes, with an example.

I was out in DC on Friday night, spending way too much money and getting way too drunk. This one particularly fine lookin girl is talking to me about who knows what, but she was smiling and dancing and stuff so I thought all was well. Then she says, "this is my fiance!" and points to the dude who is standing nearby but not next to either her or me. What did I do? Got the hell away from her, went back over to my buddy and told him "dammit man, that chick's fucking engaged!"

You're being pretty really ambiguous about what the hell the issue is here, but it seems like a whole lot of people have a problem with you doing stuff with this chick for whatever reason. Is this chick worth the hassle?
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 03:58 PM
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Well there is a difference between a fiance and her just being a friend...she never dated him or saw him like that...

Lol would it be crazy if I did say she IS worth the hassle?
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 04:01 PM
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That's not the point I'm trying to make. If she had a boyfriend, or a male best friend, or whatever, with her, I still would have done the same thing. She just happened to have a fiance.

And like I said, if this dude that has a problem with it isn't even a good friend of hers but just tried to date her or something in the past, he wouldn't be having issues with you hanging out with her. There's something more and you aren't saying what it is.
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 04:09 PM
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No seriously, that's all it is...I tell him all the time to "man the f*ck up" and tell me if it's ok if i should talk to her.. He even called me one day and said that she liked me and i should talk to her..but then i hear stories of him talking about the situation to his other friends...

People claim i should follow the code, but they never was, and it feels like jealousy maybe that she likes me and not him, but i would never imply that towards him cause thats my dawg.

He is very touchy on alot of things, trust me when i say this..
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 04:41 PM
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hang out w/ her and get to know her better. If there is a connection between you two and you still feel weird about it then sit your friends down and talk to them about it
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Old Dec 28, 2003 | 04:47 PM
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Originally posted by BonzoAPD
hang out w/ her and get to know her better. If there is a connection between you two and you still feel weird about it then sit your friends down and talk to them about it
Whooooa you need to read everything to get a lil updated..
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