I shall attempt to explain the code of bros before hoes, with an example.

I was out in DC on Friday night, spending way too much money and getting way too drunk. This one particularly fine lookin girl is talking to me about who knows what, but she was smiling and dancing and stuff so I thought all was well. Then she says, "this is my fiance!" and points to the dude who is standing nearby but not next to either her or me. What did I do? Got the hell away from her, went back over to my buddy and told him "dammit man, that chick's fucking engaged!"

You're being pretty really ambiguous about what the hell the issue is here, but it seems like a whole lot of people have a problem with you doing stuff with this chick for whatever reason. Is this chick worth the hassle?