A very weird male and female situation..
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Originally posted by DelSolGirl
I don't understand how hanging out with her is disrespecting your friends. She's not actually dating Chris or Mike.
Just hanging out, getting to know someone better and becoming friends shouldn't threaten anyone.
I don't understand how hanging out with her is disrespecting your friends. She's not actually dating Chris or Mike.Just hanging out, getting to know someone better and becoming friends shouldn't threaten anyone.
Originally posted by MrFatbooty
So tell your buddies that you like her and want to spend some time with her. It's not like if the two of you grab some dinner together you're having sex. I don't see the harm in it.
How can you be "attatched" to someone that you haven't even spent time with alone?
So tell your buddies that you like her and want to spend some time with her. It's not like if the two of you grab some dinner together you're having sex. I don't see the harm in it.
How can you be "attatched" to someone that you haven't even spent time with alone?
Originally posted by donskii
YeaItsAFourDoor,
This situation sounds like stuff that happens all of the time broski!! Don't worry about stuff too much man. Don't turn into me
You have to spend more time with her in order to develop what trace feelings you may have for her. The more time you spend with her, the better and more able you wil be able to understand her and see what her personality is like. About your friends, just tell them that everything is chill and that maybe you are just a little bit interested in her. Just try not to make a huge deal of it. Relax!! If she does like you, make sure she likes the real you and not an image you put up for her to fall for you. Good luck!
YeaItsAFourDoor,
This situation sounds like stuff that happens all of the time broski!! Don't worry about stuff too much man. Don't turn into me
You have to spend more time with her in order to develop what trace feelings you may have for her. The more time you spend with her, the better and more able you wil be able to understand her and see what her personality is like. About your friends, just tell them that everything is chill and that maybe you are just a little bit interested in her. Just try not to make a huge deal of it. Relax!! If she does like you, make sure she likes the real you and not an image you put up for her to fall for you. Good luck!
Originally posted by tirod²slc
so your best friends with chris and you've never talked about this?? this is what best friends are for.. they are supposed to know EVERYTHING about each other... talk to him about it and get his opinion.. thats what i'd do.. if its cool with him then do what u want with her.. fawk this mike guy, he aint yer business
so your best friends with chris and you've never talked about this?? this is what best friends are for.. they are supposed to know EVERYTHING about each other... talk to him about it and get his opinion.. thats what i'd do.. if its cool with him then do what u want with her.. fawk this mike guy, he aint yer business
Originally posted by RB
ugh whats with all the high school drama :screwy:
ugh whats with all the high school drama :screwy:
Lol high school drama would be something less petty than this.... this is a little bit of that Fox Monday Night Line-up type drama
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Originally posted by donskii
YeaItsAFourDoor,
This situation sounds like stuff that happens all of the time broski!! Don't worry about stuff too much man. Don't turn into me You have to spend more time with her in order to develop what trace feelings you may have for her. The more time you spend with her, the better and more able you wil be able to understand her and see what her personality is like. About your friends, just tell them that everything is chill and that maybe you are just a little bit interested in her. Just try not to make a huge deal of it. Relax!! If she does like you, make sure she likes the real you and not an image you put up for her to fall for you. Good luck!
YeaItsAFourDoor,
This situation sounds like stuff that happens all of the time broski!! Don't worry about stuff too much man. Don't turn into me
You have to spend more time with her in order to develop what trace feelings you may have for her. The more time you spend with her, the better and more able you wil be able to understand her and see what her personality is like. About your friends, just tell them that everything is chill and that maybe you are just a little bit interested in her. Just try not to make a huge deal of it. Relax!! If she does like you, make sure she likes the real you and not an image you put up for her to fall for you. Good luck!
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dude...if you like the girl then give it a try. if your boys are mad about it, then they're not really your friends. friends should want their friends to be happy. plus there is no harm in hanging out with the chick by yourself. get to know her and who she is and go from there. dont stop it before it starts because you'll always wonder what could have been. try it out. im sure your boys will understand.
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I would still feel bad..because I would never let a female make or break a friendship. He's proven beyond a doubt he has been a good friend up to now. I've had a suspended license 3 times, twice for 30 days and once for 90 days and he's given me rides to work, to see my other female friends and etc.. There were even times where i would be at home bored to death, and he would offer me a ride just to cruise the streets cause he knew i was bored..
But yea i guess you are right, i'll have to explain to him the situation and see what he has to say..
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Originally posted by kilpatty43
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dude...if you like the girl then give it a try. if your boys are mad about it, then they're not really your friends. friends should want their friends to be happy. plus there is no harm in hanging out with the chick by yourself. get to know her and who she is and go from there. dont stop it before it starts because you'll always wonder what could have been. try it out. im sure your boys will understand.
:werd:
dude...if you like the girl then give it a try. if your boys are mad about it, then they're not really your friends. friends should want their friends to be happy. plus there is no harm in hanging out with the chick by yourself. get to know her and who she is and go from there. dont stop it before it starts because you'll always wonder what could have been. try it out. im sure your boys will understand.
I hate to bring up an old topic...but it's been like a month and ever since I talked to her, things have been really clicking... but the thing is, my friend Chris has a lil problem with it...and I think it might hurt out friendship...but I really like this girl and all his friends including his family have a problem with it..
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Bro's before Ho's dude.
That is, unless you plan on spending your life with the girl. Which you probably don't since you're like still in High School.
Back away, be friends with all of them and that's that.
That is, unless you plan on spending your life with the girl. Which you probably don't since you're like still in High School.
Back away, be friends with all of them and that's that.
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Originally posted by antarius
Bro's before Ho's dude.
That is, unless you plan on spending your life with the girl. Which you probably don't since you're like still in High School.
Back away, be friends with all of them and that's that.
Bro's before Ho's dude.
That is, unless you plan on spending your life with the girl. Which you probably don't since you're like still in High School.
Back away, be friends with all of them and that's that.
I asked him from the start if it was coo, he said yes, then goes behind my back and tells everyone is upset? I dunno, thanks for the advice tho..
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they obviously had their chance with her orwhat not and blew it like you said and if they get all butt hurt cuz your chillin with her, well theyre just dumb cuz they shouldnt care unless theyre puttin up a front! if you really like her, just spend more time and chill with her...who knows what'll happen:dunno::naughty:
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Sound like she likes everybody she hasent been with yet. Seem to me form all my experience girls like to date one guy and when they have succeded at that goal they move on to each friend just to see if they can do it. The fact that your friend and all of his family dose not like it probaly fuels the hole Idea of you two seeing each other. I have seen it a thousand time and expericed a couple. Dude she is not worht a friendship there are a million fish in the see dont catch the one with a millions hooks in it.
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Originally posted by Legend_master
Sound like she likes everybody she hasent been with yet. Seem to me form all my experience girls like to date one guy and when they have succeded at that goal they move on to each friend just to see if they can do it. The fact that your friend and all of his family dose not like it probaly fuels the hole Idea of you two seeing each other. I have seen it a thousand time and expericed a couple. Dude she is not worht a friendship there are a million fish in the see dont catch the one with a millions hooks in it.
Sound like she likes everybody she hasent been with yet. Seem to me form all my experience girls like to date one guy and when they have succeded at that goal they move on to each friend just to see if they can do it. The fact that your friend and all of his family dose not like it probaly fuels the hole Idea of you two seeing each other. I have seen it a thousand time and expericed a couple. Dude she is not worht a friendship there are a million fish in the see dont catch the one with a millions hooks in it.
We call this....
An attention whore
The same reason girls wear skimpy clothes at a club but bitch at you when you slap their ass. They just want the attention, they want to be desired. But really have no desire of their own to be taken by any of those guys.
If you really want the chick, play it cool. Dont be like every other guy that likes her and throws themself at her. Make her unsure of if you like her or not, it'll make her like you more. Then, you wont have to do that shit.
Games are lame, but they're necessary sometimes.
In this case, I'd cut my losses and back off though.