yea that got me thinking too. i dont know who i am yet...im still in search of that. :thinking: thats probably why i wasnt able to hold myself in such a long and giving relationship.

thanks for all the kind words everyone. :hugglez:

 

I don't think you should ever really trully stop learning who you are.. but.. you'll know when you come to the point you're happy at to be yourself with someone else.. does that make sense? :thinking: :dunno:

 

i finally found this link
http://grouphug.us/

 

Damn will...i didn't know. I' ve been away playing FFXI and i havent been reading the forums much. I was looking forward to meet her but i guess that is all over. cheer up mang...i know it sucks.

What i do when i have to get over a bad breakup or when i'm feeling down (besides talking with friends) is finding something that helps me escape. When i went through my last really BAD breakup (ryan knows), i found art. I just kept myself in the school's studio and drew whatever came to my mind. I did a full life size drawing of myself and it came out REALLY good. I hadn't drawn for soo long so don't think that i'm an artist...i really can't draw. But when you take time to draw, it really helps. I got in tune with myself and drawing myself on paper helped me realize that i am my own person and that i don't need to rely on anyone.
Just do something, ANYTHING, constructive. Draw, write, read a book. hell, i kept a journal for 6 months, writing every day what i thought. It really helps when you go backand read what you wrote. When you do that (going back and reading), you realize that you came a long way from where you were. You also realize that when you thought you couldn't go on, you did. You got past it and that is one of THE most uplifting feelings in the world.

hang in there buddy....We all worry about you and are here to lend a crying shoulder, a listening ear, and a open mind.

-----Derrick :hs:

 

whoever said "its better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all"...was full of shit..i would have felt much better had this never happened to begin with...sure loves nice while your in it but after its over i cant say id wish to have my heart crushed..

 

Have a certain mod give you warning points for being too secksy for HAN? Ha

I'm sorry, you'll be ok. You seem like a nice guy.

 

i am. :happysad:

thanks for the words again...and no aaron, im not exposing my feelings to a bunch of stangers on the internet with that link. im not a loser.... :exnbp:


im feeling better about everything mainly because i know rany is doing ok and better with everything. as for me, im just trying to keep busy and stay away from sitting in my room all day. time and companionship heals a lot.

 

Damn Will...I'm sorry to hear that broham. I agree with keeping busy and being with friends, it will keep your mind off of wandering. Just remember...if it's meant to be, it's meant to be...everything happens for a reason.

Stay up homey....we solid y0! :exnbp:

 

fo sho, neg

:happysad:

 

hAy WiLL :hugglez:

DB squad gotcho' back!