how do you deal with breakups?
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Cake or Death?
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From: NJ
:hugglez: :happysad:
Just do more of the things you love to do. And to be honest.. sometimes it's better to be alone and think. I did a lot of that when my last relationship came to an end. A lot of thinking.. a lot of searching for who I was... because that relationship had started smack dab in the middle of a "finding myself" process.. so.. over those 2.5 years.. I just lost who I was completely. So.. after it ended.. I sat.. and thought. and thought... and thought... and made it back to "me".
But most importantly.. I delved into things I loved doing..
Shortly after we split.. I bought 1 ticket to Phantom, and that Saturday spent the entire day by myself in NYC. Went to an art museum.. hung out there for a few hours drawing. Went to a resturant and had an awesome meal.. and then saw the show.. with no one bugging me during it.
Yeah.. companionship is awesome.. but so is being by yourself. It's 50/50 to me.
Keep yourself busy for the first few days/weeks/months... how ever long it takes to sting just a little bit less. Hang in there Will... everything will work itself out.
Just do more of the things you love to do. And to be honest.. sometimes it's better to be alone and think. I did a lot of that when my last relationship came to an end. A lot of thinking.. a lot of searching for who I was... because that relationship had started smack dab in the middle of a "finding myself" process.. so.. over those 2.5 years.. I just lost who I was completely. So.. after it ended.. I sat.. and thought. and thought... and thought... and made it back to "me".
But most importantly.. I delved into things I loved doing..
Shortly after we split.. I bought 1 ticket to Phantom, and that Saturday spent the entire day by myself in NYC. Went to an art museum.. hung out there for a few hours drawing. Went to a resturant and had an awesome meal.. and then saw the show.. with no one bugging me during it.
Yeah.. companionship is awesome.. but so is being by yourself. It's 50/50 to me.
Keep yourself busy for the first few days/weeks/months... how ever long it takes to sting just a little bit less. Hang in there Will... everything will work itself out.
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From: SLC, Ut
I am sorry to hear that you a your girl broke up Will. Hang in there and keep your head up. :thumbup:
I was shocked when I read this. I mean from all your posts I thought things were fine and dandy with you two. Guess not. :dunno: Sorry to hear that you guy's broke up as well.
Originally posted by civic2k2grl
i dunno ill let you know in a week me and mine just brok eup the ther night
2 years wasnt much anyways :sad:
i dunno ill let you know in a week me and mine just brok eup the ther night
2 years wasnt much anyways :sad:
I was shocked when I read this. I mean from all your posts I thought things were fine and dandy with you two. Guess not. :dunno: Sorry to hear that you guy's broke up as well.
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From: littleton, co
hand out with your friends and family. Once you do youll realize that she wasnt for you. obviously you broke up for a reason and all you can do is remember the good times and know that there is a girl out there for you 10 times better and those good times you had will be 10 times better. Time is the only real cure but these things will help you out. It did for me.
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From: San Hose Jose
a line that i always live by:
** DON'T CRY CAUSE IT'S OVER, SMILE CAUSE IT HAPPENED **
hang in there buddy, time is the only cure. its just trying to find things to occupy the time that kills yah. give your HAN family a ring if you need us
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** DON'T CRY CAUSE IT'S OVER, SMILE CAUSE IT HAPPENED **
hang in there buddy, time is the only cure. its just trying to find things to occupy the time that kills yah. give your HAN family a ring if you need us
:hugglez:
