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Old Nov 14, 2003 | 06:54 AM
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Just Janna
Cake or Death?
 
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Just do more of the things you love to do. And to be honest.. sometimes it's better to be alone and think. I did a lot of that when my last relationship came to an end. A lot of thinking.. a lot of searching for who I was... because that relationship had started smack dab in the middle of a "finding myself" process.. so.. over those 2.5 years.. I just lost who I was completely. So.. after it ended.. I sat.. and thought. and thought... and thought... and made it back to "me".
But most importantly.. I delved into things I loved doing..
Shortly after we split.. I bought 1 ticket to Phantom, and that Saturday spent the entire day by myself in NYC. Went to an art museum.. hung out there for a few hours drawing. Went to a resturant and had an awesome meal.. and then saw the show.. with no one bugging me during it.
Yeah.. companionship is awesome.. but so is being by yourself. It's 50/50 to me.
Keep yourself busy for the first few days/weeks/months... how ever long it takes to sting just a little bit less. Hang in there Will... everything will work itself out.
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