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Originally posted by doIhaveBDIs
sounds like a geek....
sounds like a geek....
Scary. I actually agree with the kid.
Yeah, this guy is a nut job in the making. Stay away from him.
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ok, so he just left me a voicemail asking me about a car part and then he's like "i miss you, call me tonight when you get off, bye babe" :wtf: i dont get it. :dunno: he's hot and cold. what should i do guys??
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From: My own level of hell
Originally posted by kilpatty43
ok, so he just left me a voicemail asking me about a car part and then he's like "i miss you, call me tonight when you get off, bye babe" :wtf: i dont get it. :dunno: he's hot and cold. what should i do guys??
ok, so he just left me a voicemail asking me about a car part and then he's like "i miss you, call me tonight when you get off, bye babe" :wtf: i dont get it. :dunno: he's hot and cold. what should i do guys??
Originally posted by Nightshade
Run...run away quickly.
seriously this guy has potential abuse case written all over him.
Run...run away quickly.
seriously this guy has potential abuse case written all over him.
Not trying to be an ass but you don't read so well do you?
Seriously there is a highly probable chance for an abusive relationship here.
But if you like that type of relationship then enjoy.
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Originally posted by kilpatty43
ok, so he just left me a voicemail asking me about a car part and then he's like "i miss you, call me tonight when you get off, bye babe" :wtf: i dont get it. :dunno: he's hot and cold. what should i do guys??
ok, so he just left me a voicemail asking me about a car part and then he's like "i miss you, call me tonight when you get off, bye babe" :wtf: i dont get it. :dunno: he's hot and cold. what should i do guys??
Originally posted by EriksShadow
Since you do like him.. I guess wait it out and let him approach you. But all signs point to "freaked out". Also.. don't be afraid to stick up for yourself and say :wtf: to a turn of events like that. He made the first step in saying he wanted something more. You were just showing him you cared enough to see how he was doing after a busy day. Not saying he's completly in the wrong... but.. the way he reacted would deffinatly raise a few eyebrows and I wouldn't hesitate to question it after he approaches you.
Since you do like him.. I guess wait it out and let him approach you. But all signs point to "freaked out". Also.. don't be afraid to stick up for yourself and say :wtf: to a turn of events like that. He made the first step in saying he wanted something more. You were just showing him you cared enough to see how he was doing after a busy day. Not saying he's completly in the wrong... but.. the way he reacted would deffinatly raise a few eyebrows and I wouldn't hesitate to question it after he approaches you.
Originally posted by Nightshade
Run...run away quickly.
seriously this guy has potential abuse case written all over him.
Run...run away quickly.
seriously this guy has potential abuse case written all over him.
Originally posted by Nightshade
Not trying to be an ass but you don't read so well do you?
Seriously there is a highly probable chance for an abusive relationship here.
But if you like that type of relationship then enjoy.
Not trying to be an ass but you don't read so well do you?
Seriously there is a highly probable chance for an abusive relationship here.
But if you like that type of relationship then enjoy.
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Originally posted by doIhaveBDIs
my realtionship is werid as ****... we never erally "talk" or do anything "cute or romantic like we used to...its all hi sex bye....hahaha
my realtionship is werid as ****... we never erally "talk" or do anything "cute or romantic like we used to...its all hi sex bye....hahaha
i wouldnt exactly call that a relationship. If you are with a person for that long then it must be for a reason otherwise its waste of time. My ex we could talk on the phone for hours...but given the fact that we rarely did actaully talk on the phone because of her parents...but i dont see why not if you actually have things in common it would be so hard to speak on the phone. not that thats all you should do but it shouldnt be impossible.
like tony said if u like the girl you sould be willing to talk to her if u cant see her.
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i don't think it will be abusive at all. ive been there before, and i know the signs, but i kick box and i know self defense, and i love to fight, so im not worried.
but i will keep y'all posted on what happens
but i will keep y'all posted on what happens