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http://www.divorcemag.com/statistics/statsUS.shtml

 

ill tell you all what...

my sister got married this previous march...March 1st, 2003. she was only 20 years old and married a 24 year-old fresh out of college. Guess why she got married? Because she got pregnant. Most people would say "well now,thatz not the reason why two people should marry". Lemme tell you that because they married, the father is now entitled to child support in case they ever divorce.

How is their marraige going so far? Ups and downs, mostly downs. The first year of a marriage is ALWAYS the hardest, no matter how old you are. You have to learn to develop with one another, choose what to change, what not to change, and learn to cope with the significant other.

My sister, only 20 when she had her first baby, matured very quickly. Before she moved out, I used to fight with her all the time, just like when we were kids (cept for the hitting, i never hit her when we got older...i dont hit girls) Now, she is the most loving mother I know besides my own. Her husband still has to mature a little bit more. It's amazing to watch a young marriage try to work out, and seriously, i dont know where they'll be in a year. All i know is, I am VERY proud of my sister and respect her for most of her decisions she has made within the last year (most of all the decision to keep the baby). Thatz my take on it.

 

I don't think there is a real age thats right to get married. Some people never are mature enough to get married. I know some people who shouldn't have been allowed to get a drivers license let alone be able to have kids. I think its up to the two people who are together, when they feel they are ready for it. I might get married in a few years, or I might never get married... but I might still be with someone for a long time.

Ok... i dont know where I am going with this. Drugs are making me loopy h:

 

Goes back to my philosophy... I am gonna have sex when I know I can deal with my actions. Thats why I choose to stay celibate, I don't want to deal with all the crap of things going wrong. I'd much rather go to bed knowing that if I get my woman pregnant then its because she is my wife and not some girl who I'll be forced to marry.

 

I've had sex a whole buncha times and I don't have any kids that I know of

 

98% of all Statistics are made up

 

thatz one very important lesson ive learned from my sister's experiences...dont get into the shitt that she has gotten into. Being the older sister made her feel that she has to experience everything, and I am very lucky to be the younger brother. I learn from her mistakes. But, i love my new nephew too much to wish that it never happened.

 

I cant have kids.

 

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I don't know you... but that was a good one