Originally posted by Patman015
ill tell you all what...
my sister got married this previous march...March 1st, 2003. she was only 20 years old and married a 24 year-old fresh out of college. Guess why she got married? Because she got pregnant. Most people would say "well now,thatz not the reason why two people should marry". Lemme tell you that because they married, the father is now entitled to child support in case they ever divorce.
How is their marraige going so far? Ups and downs, mostly downs. The first year of a marriage is ALWAYS the hardest, no matter how old you are. You have to learn to develop with one another, choose what to change, what not to change, and learn to cope with the significant other.
My sister, only 20 when she had her first baby, matured very quickly. Before she moved out, I used to fight with her all the time, just like when we were kids (cept for the hitting, i never hit her when we got older...i dont hit girls) Now, she is the most loving mother I know besides my own. Her husband still has to mature a little bit more. It's amazing to watch a young marriage try to work out, and seriously, i dont know where they'll be in a year. All i know is, I am VERY proud of my sister and respect her for most of her decisions she has made within the last year (most of all the decision to keep the baby). Thatz my take on it.
Goes back to my philosophy... I am gonna have sex when I know I can deal with my actions. Thats why I choose to stay celibate, I don't want to deal with all the crap of things going wrong. I'd much rather go to bed knowing that if I get my woman pregnant then its because she is my wife and not some girl who I'll be forced to marry.