Originally Posted by
braatenj
1. yes i hear the fuel pump go on
Then it isn't your main relay.
Originally Posted by
braatenj
3. for the ground is that on the passenger side of the car and it goes from the frame of the car to a bolt/mount on the tranny?
There should be an obvious ground wire that goes from the tranny to the frame. I bet running925 is correct.
If the ground is intact, you may need to clean the connections.