So I've been dating, seeing this chick every day and almost living together for the past 4 months. Yesterday she wanted to show me vacation pictures on her pc.

When she opened the folder she realized that some of the pictures were of her ex. So she selected them and moved them to a "newfolder" which made me ask why she didn't just delete them. She didn't have an awnser for me... she just ignored the question.

Later she felt as though something was wrong so told her that not answering was somewhat upseting. She then jsut said "I don't know why I didn't delete them but I'll delete them now." I told her I didn't care really that I just found it strange that she didn't.

Later I learn that she work with this dude. Not at the same office. He's in phillie she's in mtl but they still interact on a weekly basis.

All this made me somewhat upset and questionning myself wether its normal to be upset or if it me just being a bitch or even if she is over that's dude.

Just to clirify the pictures of her and the dude wasn't scenery picture it was just the both of them being lovy dovy.

 

I would say you shouldn't worry too much about it. A good relationship can be easily ruined with insecuritys.

 

I would say you shouldn't worry too much about it. A good relationship can be easily ruined with insecuritys.

 

Over analyzing. How long was she with her ex? I have an ex that ended on good terms, we realized we made better friends than lovers. My current Gf understands she was a big part of my life and still a friend with no romantic feelings.

 

Although it's odd she hid those facts from you, realistically it was probably because she still wants to be friends and she was afraid it would piss you off.

Meh.

 

don't sweat it.

 

Don't sweat it crew. I've still got pictures of some of my ex's. Just because you're not dating them anymore doesn't mean you need to disavow all memories of them. Hell, my woman talks to her ex husband practically on a daily basis, and I we went to his birthday party together

 

sound like a Justin Kutcher/Demi Moore/Bruce Willis deal you got going on

 

Dude, just because someone has pictures of someone from the past doesnt mean they should delete them because someone new came along. Those are called 'memories.' Its completely normal so calm down. You acting this way shows a HUGE insecurity. And if you're scared that she didnt tell you because she knew you'd react this way leads me to believe she knows how you'd react = insecure.

First thing you need to realize is you're with her now and that should boost any and all problems you have. Stop and take a drink of reality - thats life man; people were with other before you and thats that.

Calm down and OWN the situation otherwise you're gonna regret acting soft and intimidated. Girls can smell that shit like cheap cologne.

 

Yeah, you kinda have to keep in contact when you're raising a kid