kids..im not getting back together with her.. just kinda ripped over the situation....

this is part of the reason why i wouldnt consider it.. she broke up with some guy like 4 weeks ago.. i brought this up tonite, she was like "it wasent even a relationship.... the only reason i went out with him was to try and forget about you..."... i was like oh... alright...

 

shut the fuck up dude.

 

make sure she knows that u're with a new one. And don't break the new girl's heart. She doens't deserve that. Of course you can always be your ex's friend, but think wise before you decide to go back.

If I were you, na uh.

 

The ex is old news you already know enough about her now you just need to explore the new one. New girls are hella fun.

 

Basically women are insane. The ex wants you back not because she thinks you guys can have a successful relationship, but because she is frustrated by her not having a boyfriend any more. That frustration might make her think that you guys should get back together but it's only temporary insanity. Try to explain this to her and preferably without calling her insane, because well chicks don't like to be told that they're insane even though secretly they all realize it.

 

i am in the same shoes sorta.. and if mine comes around i'm going straight back to it. it really depends why you broke up in the first place.. mine ended cause i was going to college and we figured it'd be to much stress on it and ended it. yours could be a different story.. but i nkow i whored myself around trying to forget her.

 

"if you love someone then let them go,..if its meant to be then they will come back" i always believed in this but in your situation it sounds like what FatBooty said

 

its a tough situation. I was was there with one of my exes, she did that a few times. She may just cause you pain in the end. What is the situation with you and the new girl? Are you two dating or just getting to know eachother?

 

If a girl broke my heart, and then came back wanting to get me back, i'd tell her to **** off in a nice sort of way. Dude think with with the head on your shoulders. She broke your heart, she broke a trust. If you get back together with her, how will you ever be able to trust her not to break your heart again? My ex broke up with me for whatever reason I don't know. This was 2 months ago. I'm over her but in a way I still love her and probably always will, but at the same time I hate her for what she did to us. If she came up to me wanting me back, i'd say **** no.

 

It's on her bro. She broke up with you, you shouldn't feel bad that she has regrets. You've gotten over her, I say see what's up with the new girl.