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I need some advice.
Last week I met this girl at a dinner one of my friends invited me to. She was by far the hottest one there and we got to chatting after my buddy played wingman for me. We even went outside for a smoke and chatted away from everyone else. I figured she was into me and I was going to get her number outside. Turns out she stayed behind to finish wine (by herself) so my buddy, his gf and I went back in to keep her company while she finished. We were all laughing, having a good time and she was flirting. When wrapping up and she asked what we were up to for the rest of the night. My friend was going home and I was gonna chill. I asked her and she said she had to get back to her kids (as a joke). Totally threw my game off and I didn't get her number.
So the next day she follows me on twitter and adds me as a facebook friend. I FB message her and say I'm flattered for the adds and that I need her phone number to complete the circle. Don't hear back for a few days then we flirt back and forth about giving me her number. It felt like she was gauging my interest before giving it out. Yesterday she responds with (this is paraphrase) "I feel its my responsibility to give you my number, unless that's a problem for you =)" So I call her last night to ask her out, it goes to VM, leave a message and haven't heard back.
Experience says I should wait it out another day or so before calling/texting her again. But wanted to see what you all thought. Don't wanna fuck this up, that's for sure.
Last week I met this girl at a dinner one of my friends invited me to. She was by far the hottest one there and we got to chatting after my buddy played wingman for me. We even went outside for a smoke and chatted away from everyone else. I figured she was into me and I was going to get her number outside. Turns out she stayed behind to finish wine (by herself) so my buddy, his gf and I went back in to keep her company while she finished. We were all laughing, having a good time and she was flirting. When wrapping up and she asked what we were up to for the rest of the night. My friend was going home and I was gonna chill. I asked her and she said she had to get back to her kids (as a joke). Totally threw my game off and I didn't get her number.
So the next day she follows me on twitter and adds me as a facebook friend. I FB message her and say I'm flattered for the adds and that I need her phone number to complete the circle. Don't hear back for a few days then we flirt back and forth about giving me her number. It felt like she was gauging my interest before giving it out. Yesterday she responds with (this is paraphrase) "I feel its my responsibility to give you my number, unless that's a problem for you =)" So I call her last night to ask her out, it goes to VM, leave a message and haven't heard back.
Experience says I should wait it out another day or so before calling/texting her again. But wanted to see what you all thought. Don't wanna fuck this up, that's for sure.
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