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Old Mar 13, 2008 | 09:55 AM
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Strippers are only a quarter step (if that) above hookers. Don't care how nice the stripper is or if she is doing it to "get through college" she is a hooker in my opinion.

So in the end yes I see it as cheating. I wouldn't want my old lady doing it so I myself don't do it. Never saw the thrill in strip clubs anyways.
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Old Mar 13, 2008 | 10:14 AM
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thats like saying watching and jerking off to porn is cheating. why do people go to a strip club? for the fantasy and to get aroused, why do people watch porn? for the fantasy and to get aroused, if anything going to strip club could help a relationship i know every time ive gone to one and had a GF i would want to go home and fuck the shit out of my GF. same with porn. I have never had a problem with a ex GF wanting to go to a male strip club. as none of my ex GF’s have ever had a problem with me going to one, shit most of the time they would want to go with me and I had no problem with that in the end its all entertainment.
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Old Mar 13, 2008 | 10:20 AM
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Originally Posted by dj02
thats like saying watching and jerking off to porn is cheating. why do people go to a strip club? for the fantasy and to get aroused, why do people watch porn? for the fantasy and to get aroused, if anything going to strip club could help a relationship i know every time ive gone to one and had a GF i would want to go home and fuck the shit out of my GF. same with porn. I have never had a problem with a ex GF wanting to go to a male strip club. as none of my ex GF’s have ever had a problem with me going to one, shit most of the time they would want to go with me and I had no problem with that in the end its all entertainment.
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Old Mar 13, 2008 | 10:22 AM
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Man, my ex didn't want me to go to hooters, she couldn't stand it if I looked at other girls.
Needless to say I dumped her.
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Old Mar 13, 2008 | 10:39 AM
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I do think so at all... and I wouldnt care if I had a gf who went to a club and got the lap dance.

Now if she sticks his cock in her mouth, or decides to get his number and go "hang out" or go visit him often or something, then its not cool.



My ex told it to me the best. Something along the lines of "Strip clubs are like zoos. You can go look if you want, just don't feed the animals." :chuckles:
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Old Mar 13, 2008 | 10:39 AM
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I do think so at all... and I wouldnt care if I had a gf who went to a club and got the lap dance.

Now if she sticks his cock in her mouth, or decides to get his number and go "hang out" or go visit him often or something, then its not cool.



My ex told it to me the best. Something along the lines of "Strip clubs are like zoos. You can go look if you want, just don't feed the animals." :chuckles:
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Old Mar 13, 2008 | 10:56 AM
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did you have to get your point across twice? :eh:
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Old Mar 13, 2008 | 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted by canada
I do think so at all... and I wouldnt care if I had a gf who went to a club and got the lap dance.

Now if she sticks his cock in her mouth, or decides to get his number and go "hang out" or go visit him often or something, then its not cool.



My ex told it to me the best. Something along the lines of "Strip clubs are like zoos. You can go look if you want, just don't feed the animals." :chuckles:
I agree entirely. Its all the talk of 'more than a lapdance' that I consider cheating.
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Old Mar 13, 2008 | 01:51 PM
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my ex gave me the ok to go to strip clubs. Hell she even went to some with me. So while I don't consider it cheating I think it all comes down to whether or not your partner does (assuming we are talking about normal dances here).
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Old Mar 13, 2008 | 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by LABARINTH
my ex gave me the ok to go to strip clubs. Hell she even went to some with me. So while I don't consider it cheating I think it all comes down to whether or not your partner does (assuming we are talking about normal dances here).
yall signed the papers? :woah:
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