thats like saying watching and jerking off to porn is cheating. why do people go to a strip club? for the fantasy and to get aroused, why do people watch porn? for the fantasy and to get aroused, if anything going to strip club could help a relationship i know every time ive gone to one and had a GF i would want to go home and fuck the shit out of my GF. same with porn. I have never had a problem with a ex GF wanting to go to a male strip club. as none of my ex GF’s have ever had a problem with me going to one, shit most of the time they would want to go with me and I had no problem with that in the end its all entertainment.