Delete the thread, but tell me why the hell I should delete pics of my ex's off my computer I dont get that at all.

 

Dang, where'd it go!?

It was entertaining.

 

in before lock

 

No no no this should be a serious discussion. I dont get the logic. My gf knows I have pics of my ex's on my pc (including noods) and couldn't care less. Is this an insecurity issue or what??

 

Like I said in the other thread:

Keep the pics but don't flaunt them in to your current SO. If they find them and ask then just be honest about it and say it's because it is part of your life and although it is the past you have fond memories.

Now if you get serious about someone and are engaged or married and still have these pics you have some issues and they have every right to kick your ass for holding onto them.

Up to that point though as long as you aren't using them as desktops or something it shouldn't be an issue.

 

women see failed relationships as a waste of their time
men see it as a great time of their life that has now ended

its a very different mindset and leads to all sorts of issues

 

You dont have to do shit. Its yours. If you put a ring on her finger, then, as stated before, she owns you....but before that shit? No one has any place telling you to do so. Yes its insecurity.

 

yeah uh barbie bridgette is not my desktop h:

 

Why did my post get deleted? Was an honest question :dunno:

 

:rofl:

Yeah but if you are in a relationship you would also (I hope) have enough sense not to have exgf photos everywhere or even point them out to your current gf unless she honestly wants to know.


But remember to watch out because if you show your cards she may just show hers too. Not sure about you but I honestly want to know nothing about their past relationships...not on my list of interests at all.