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Old Feb 26, 2008 | 10:28 AM
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if she's that insecure, then give her the boot. why put up with it?
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Old Feb 26, 2008 | 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted by cpvdh
women see failed relationships as a waste of their time
men see it as a great time of their life that has now ended

its a very different mindset and leads to all sorts of issues
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i was just talking about this last night with my buddy, we were talking about my lil asian stripper ex and all the girls i know are like that was such a waste of your time.

i think differently, its gonna take a whole lot to top the crazy shit i got involved in when i was with her. and its some awesome stories for the record books.
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Old Feb 26, 2008 | 10:30 AM
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Originally Posted by Nightshade
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Yeah but if you are in a relationship you would also (I hope) have enough sense not to have exgf photos everywhere or even point them out to your current gf unless she honestly wants to know.


But remember to watch out because if you show your cards she may just show hers too. Not sure about you but I honestly want to know nothing about their past relationships...not on my list of interests at all.
Honestly John, my current gf is just about the exact same as me. 3 serious relationships, a couple of flings. I dont mind hearing about them honestly because it helps me realize what I can do better. Past gfs I havent wanted to hear anything about their past but this one is like my sister...Jesse knows what I mean h: it's both good and bad.

The only pics of my ex's are on my PC...my gf has found them, said something, was reminded she has plenty of crap from her ex's in shoeboxes, and the issue never came up again.

Although I wish I had printed off and framed the ice cream foot picture before she deleted it :lmao: that was hilarious.
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Old Feb 26, 2008 | 10:30 AM
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why would marriage change things at all for some of you guys?

when i love someone i love them, being married or legally theirs doesnt change anything to me

i dont see any reason they should be thrown out when just a gf, and still dont when they are a wife
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Old Feb 26, 2008 | 10:31 AM
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Originally Posted by rebeld
my lil asian stripper ex
lil? :rofl: come on bro wake up.
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Old Feb 26, 2008 | 10:32 AM
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I still got a whole bunch of pictures of my exs and the girls i've dated.
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Old Feb 26, 2008 | 10:34 AM
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I honestly dont think I was bitching.

I was asking, from a males perspective...what is the RIGHT way to go about telling them 'Hey, that kind of bothers me a little' without sounding like a bitch or being all 'HEY THATS F'ED UP...TRASH IT NOW'

I even stated that Im understanding as to WHY he'd even have them..Its not a problem honestly.

I was politely asking..Hey. Should I be bothered? How should I approach it.
Thats all.

I dont even think I said anything ALONG the lines of 'Thats really f'ed up'

I have pictures on my myspace with guys Ive known forever and are mutual friends between my oldest brother and I, and I get chewed out for it. But then Im not suppose to get a little hurt at photos laying out of someone he dated for 3 years and had alot of history with? Makes no sense to me. So In all honesty, I think Im handling it pretty well. Cause I havent freaked out about it ONCE. I even know he has more pictures of that on his computer, on all the computers in his house actually...and Ive never said one WORD about.

So dont judge. Half of you obviously werent even listening to what I initially said.
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Old Feb 26, 2008 | 10:35 AM
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if you can't stand the heat, stay out the sauna full of gay males.
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Old Feb 26, 2008 | 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted by 98CoupeV6
lil? :rofl: come on bro wake up.
wait wut?
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Old Feb 26, 2008 | 10:45 AM
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what if when you were 16 your girlfriend gave you a bunch of polaroids for your birthday. Over time you forgot about them, but then discovered them 8 years later in a shoe box in your closet....does it make you a pedo for looking at them :eek3:
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