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Old Oct 29, 2007 | 12:53 PM
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Kinda in a 1/4 life crisis right now......

I have been finding my life boring as fuck right now and my daily routines are so monotenous that I need something to shake things up....

- School is not challenging for me at all, I have yet to actually take time to study for my classes, but I still maintain a B average

- I find myself going to the Casino at least once a week because it is the only definite and fun option I have available to me, without pickin a more destructive option (ie..smoking, drinking)

- Find myself spending way too much money to curb my boredom

I feel like I'm the only person I know that wants to better themselves, but im always surrounded by people who I feel are lesser beings than me, but I continue to associate with these people

I want to get started on my adult life but I feel im behind because I messed up in school and im now 2 years behind where I should be, and I can't picture myself after finishing school..

Is this normal? i hope im not the only one who has felt this way
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Old Oct 29, 2007 | 12:57 PM
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Drop your lose ass friends. Realize that you only make things happen. Join a sports team and you're gaining not only exercise but making friends with the same interests. And stop watching gay porn.
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Old Oct 29, 2007 | 12:57 PM
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Originally Posted by F22B Prelude
Kinda in a 1/4 life crisis right now......

I have been finding my life boring as fuck right now and my daily routines are so monotenous that I need something to shake things up....

- School is not challenging for me at all, I have yet to actually take time to study for my classes, but I still maintain a B average

- I find myself going to the Casino at least once a week because it is the only definite and fun option I have available to me, without pickin a more destructive option (ie..smoking, drinking)

- Find myself spending way too much money to curb my boredom

I feel like I'm the only person I know that wants to better themselves, but im always surrounded by people who I feel are lesser beings than me, but I continue to associate with these people

I want to get started on my adult life but I feel im behind because I messed up in school and im now 2 years behind where I should be, and I can't picture myself after finishing school..

Is this normal? i hope im not the only one who has felt this way
Challenge yourself to get all A's - its something to work for and if you are able to graduate with honors, its great for your resume to lead for a better future.

Obviously going to the casino is too expensive of an activity for you to choose every single week - limit it to once a month or once every few months even to save up some dough. Instead, try to think of other fun things to do...they don't always have to include drinking/smoking. There's a bowling alley near where I live that has $1 night for college students where it's $1 for shoes and $1/game....find stuff like that and new friends that don't suck :dunno:

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Old Oct 29, 2007 | 01:01 PM
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Honestly, drop your friends that are just holding you down... If they have nothing to contribute to you, lose them... I had to do that awhile back when I realized a bunch of the "car guys" I hung out with thought of nothing else but cars... they had nothing else going for them... and hanging out with them was just dragging me into the same hole
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Old Oct 29, 2007 | 01:05 PM
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I guess its finally got to be done, and cut them loose.....

I started workin out again, but I have to drive all the way back to school after leaving there and the commute home takes about 30-45mins.....I would like to move out but I don't have enough money, So im stuck wasting $200+ a month on gas..

This feels good to let all this shit out though, even if noone responds
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Old Oct 29, 2007 | 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted by CRAIGHIMSELF
Drop your lose ass friends. Realize that you only make things happen. Join a sports team and you're gaining not only exercise but making friends with the same interests. And stop watching gay porn.
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Old Oct 29, 2007 | 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted by CRAIGHIMSELF
Drop your lose ass friends. Realize that you only make things happen. Join a sports team and you're gaining not only exercise but making friends with the same interests. And stop watching gay porn.
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Old Oct 29, 2007 | 01:10 PM
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Originally Posted by dj02
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shit! i didnt know u wrote that already! i just hit the quote button as soon as i read craig0rz
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Old Oct 29, 2007 | 01:11 PM
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Originally Posted by 95SiR
shit! i didnt know u wrote that already! i just hit the quote button as soon as i read craig0rz

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Old Oct 29, 2007 | 01:12 PM
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Thanks Guys and Girl
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