actually, I can honestly say no, and that I've changed.

I know for sure I've changed, because I used to have a hard time holding up emotionally around her. the last few times we've hung out, I broke down crying over the whole thing. last night felt like normal again. I didn't cry, and actually we both had a lot of fun.

she's a damn good girl, real smart, real attractive, totally wife-able. I had cold feet before. we were together 2.5 years, talked about marrage and living together. I just freaked out, and between me pushing away and her going through alot of personal change (work, friends, turning 21, etc), it just seemed like a good idea to take some time off. I wasn't really happy about it, it wasn't my idea to seperate, but ultimately it did us both a lot of good.

we already have plans to go to my company post-holiday party, so its a step in the right direction. its just something that'll take time.

 

With relationship stuff, sometimes its the best to get advice from people that dont really know the specific details. They are usually right :happysad:

 

its more the devils advocat thing. I try to keep myself thinking about all sides of a situation. trust me, I've spent alot of time thinking about this one.

but this isn't just some random bitch I've fucked. this isn't just some girl I dated for a few months. I know girls I've been with that after everythings done, its clearly time for me to move on.

I'm 25, and I've gotten my share of play. I've seen all sorts of women. I know what to look out for.

and I know this girl is special. and so long as I can, I will continue to hope for the best. I rather be optimistic and fall short in this case.

we've been seperated now since late august. I haven't seen her before last night in about two weeks.

I'm not saying we're going to fix everyhting and be back together tomorrow. however, I feel that after a few months of being around each other, and remembering why we fell in love with each other in the first place, thigns will change.

and if things don't work out, oh well. at least i tried. but I feel everything happens for a reason, so if she's not the one, the path I'm on will lead me to her

 

and sometimes people who don't know everything can't really comment on things :dunno:

I'm not asking for advice here, nor did I address the need for it to be given. I just posted that I had a great time last night. thats all. maybe you guys feel some other way, but you know what you know based on your own personal experience.

 

Well...hope everything works out for ya mang. I sometimes wish me and my ex would've gotten back together...then i wake up and realize i shouldn't have been with the bitch in the first place. But everyones situation is unique and different. One can only ride the wave and see where it takes u

 

I respect this mans replies.

 

what if you can't surf?

 

Then you ride through the desert on a horse with no name

 

On a seriously note, good luck to you dude...

 

trust me, I've been with those women that I regret dating.

if I regret anything about this girl, its that I shouldn't have freaked out. I just wasn't at the point for a major commitment like that.