so i'm like going through this phase of depression. i'm really into this girl, we flirt a lot and we're basically together right now, but she's going to another school next year on the east coast probably and i don't want to get too close to her because i don't want to go through the pain of losing her in a couple of months. she's just so wonderful and perfect to me, i've liked her for a while and now she's liking me back but i don't know what to do. i've never really felt this way for any girl before so i'm just really confused as to what i should do.
feel free to make fun of me, and to tell me any encouraging words if you'd be so kind to do so. just felt like posting this because i wanted to get it out.

 

It's going to hurt REALLY bad........ but you're gonna have to let her go to keep your sanity :hs:

 

Send her to me, I'll straighten her out for you h:

 

dude follow your heart. it'll be ok, if she goes away to school, u guy can still have a long distance relationship. trust me if u liek her and she likes you then thats all that matters. who knows in a couple of months u guy might fall in love with each other. anytime u need advice my door is always open.

 

 

ohh bitter sweet love, i feel for you man. I'm in a similar situation, except my girl has not said that she likes me yet, but i know she does. plus shes going to college here in St.Louis, but yet i have no balls to tell her how i feel, so take it from me man, since you and her are already together it should be easier for you to tell her how you feel. don't let her go man, every day i ask myself " why isn't she by my side". tell her how you feel man, take a chair and tell her to sit. then proceed to tell her your feelings and what you hope the relationship could turn into. then listen to what she has to say, if she feels the same way, do whatever you can to make it work.

Good Luck Man.

Your Love Doctor, Alen.S

 

my girl might go to socal or couple places that are 2 hours away from me for college, I'm getting myself ready for that :hs:

if both of you are willing to stay committed it can work. Just depends on the trust. Since you haven't really built any yet, you can never know :hs:

 

long distance relationships rarely work :hs:

 

thanks guys. but the thing is, like i kind of already know the outcome. she's going to end up going to a school on the east coast, and i'll just stay here in washington. long term relationships don't really work that well from what i've heard of them. i know she likes me, but i'm not sure if she likes me even close to how much i feel for her. and i'm not 100% sure if she's over her little fling she had with another guy i knew last year.
if i do pursue it, which will make me extremely happy for a short time, i can bet that when the time comes she'll end up just leaving and i'll be the one who gets jipped and literally just go into some pansy-ass emo state... just don't want that to happen to me

 

take your own advice talk to the girl, i was in that same boat as u. i really felt something for this girl and we were the bestest of friends and now we are together.

it all depends on the people