In my defense, I didn't say anything to make her feel stupid. Couldn't really help her out since I didn't know what she really wanted.

I think we're through though, seems like I'm the only one showing that I want things to work. I know she does too, but she won't show it and insist that I don't understand anything about her. That's why she won't do anything about it.

(what hurts is that she knows how I feel for her, yet she wanted more and she admitted that I'm just not "it")

off to get another beer!
Thanks for the feedback. I get it from you guys more than her how sad

 

It was this particular vietnamese dish and that restaurant does NOT make the shrimps she wanted AT ALL.

 

well... dude it sounds like you are whipped... you need to let her know who is boss...she tells you you arent doing something and you take it to heart... you need to let her know that the way she acts and tries to make you feel, whether it be guility or whatever, isnt how it is going to be, but instead you are unaffected and tht she should shape up if she wants it...

 

ahhhh when me and my gf first met and I first looked into her eyes I knew her and I would have something special.

I took her out of her comfort zone so many times that it frusterated her and pissed her off to the point where she'd need a "cool off" period and I'd sit there wondering if we'd be getting back together. So instead of just leaving I'd wait around because I knew she is worth the wait and that would piss her off even more just because of the fact she wasn't getting what she wanted.

Push came to shove, I often wondered where we would end up, how things would end, or where they would go. Its been over a year now and things are awesome and I wouldn't want to be with anyone else.

I think it really comes down to how you truly feel about her, the relationship and how you feel about her AND the relationship. Do you feel like she's the one? One you will want to settle down with and not just do it for the sake of settling?

To many people now settle down with someone just because it'll be easier to settle than be single. If you are gonna settle, they just go have fun and hump some teens, cougars, and milfs and if it floats your boat... gilfs.

 

I know I'm never the perfect man. Was just trying to do my best being what I can be, to see what that takes me u know?

 

I feel ya... I got pushed around for the same shit... everything was my fault till I ended it... and then she woke up and realized she was the one tht fucked up, and begged to get back with me... I fucked her and chucked her... she needed a wake up call... yes I am a heartless asshole and paybacks are a bitch, especially since she cheated on me...

 

Great when patience paids itself off huh?
Not sure if that will be the case for me.

"One you will want to settle down with and not just do it for the sake of settling?"

I'll have to ponder about that.

 

just ask yourself this.

in 20 yrs will you still want to cuddle her in bed, shower with her naked, walk on the beach with the sun going down?

 

Kinda hard to imagine that when you've been kicked down to the bottom you know?

All I know is that I want someone a bit more understanding, at least I know I want that much.

 

Then don't cheat yourself, and find someone better.