Originally Posted by
firebane
ahhhh when me and my gf first met and I first looked into her eyes I knew her and I would have something special.
I took her out of her comfort zone so many times that it frusterated her and pissed her off to the point where she'd need a "cool off" period and I'd sit there wondering if we'd be getting back together. So instead of just leaving I'd wait around because I knew she is worth the wait and that would piss her off even more just because of the fact she wasn't getting what she wanted.
Push came to shove, I often wondered where we would end up, how things would end, or where they would go. Its been over a year now and things are awesome and I wouldn't want to be with anyone else.
I think it really comes down to how you truly feel about her, the relationship and how you feel about her AND the relationship. Do you feel like she's the one? One you will want to settle down with and not just do it for the sake of settling?
To many people now settle down with someone just because it'll be easier to settle than be single. If you are gonna settle, they just go have fun and hump some teens, cougars, and milfs and if it floats your boat... gilfs.
Great when patience paids itself off huh?
Not sure if that will be the case for me.
"One you will want to settle down with and not just do it for the sake of settling?"
I'll have to ponder about that.