Morning Crew v.Wednesday
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From: down at Va Beach
it wont impact my life that much dude... if i go, i go to work over there and business prospect.If i dont like it i come back here and get my job back anywais... can't really lose!
Before the break up i was already down remember?
Some of it is true though... when i think about it i wouldn't go if we were still together, just cause i would want to be with her here. BUT now that i dont have her to take away some of my pains and give me some joy... fuck her! I am going!
I just hope i get my time off... common, you have to admit that if you could leave the country and see something new for 3 months(while still retaining your job security) you would be tempted... who wouldn't??
Before the break up i was already down remember?
Some of it is true though... when i think about it i wouldn't go if we were still together, just cause i would want to be with her here. BUT now that i dont have her to take away some of my pains and give me some joy... fuck her! I am going!
I just hope i get my time off... common, you have to admit that if you could leave the country and see something new for 3 months(while still retaining your job security) you would be tempted... who wouldn't??
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From: West Michigan
I don't really know. It just seems like running off to Africa for 3 months is to avoid being home and possibly seeing the ex-bish. I think it could be good medicine to perhaps in the near future run into the ex and be like "look at me, I'm strong, fine, and doing great without you. I didn't need you after all."
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i agree..i know when my cousin went through a divorce, he was married for 20 yrs, he was going to quit his job at nasa and join his brother, a priest, in cambodia as a volunteer with maryknoll. he chose not too after he realized he still had 2 kids to raise..its more involved then that but he was so distraught a sudden, extreme choice was what he thought would help him. a complete change from the life that at the time was too painful. he chose to stay home and is doing much better. its been 2 yrs..
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From: Montréal, Canada
I don't really know. It just seems like running off to Africa for 3 months is to avoid being home and possibly seeing the ex-bish. I think it could be good medicine to perhaps in the near future run into the ex and be like "look at me, I'm strong, fine, and doing great without you. I didn't need you after all."
1 more reason i am doing this is that if she all of a sudden say she wants to get back, i dont trust myself (there the vagina=irrationnal thing) so if all is settled i will have no choice but to leave you dig?
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From: Montréal, Canada
i agree..i know when my cousin went through a divorce, he was married for 20 yrs, he was going to quit his job at nasa and join his brother, a priest, in cambodia as a volunteer with maryknoll. he chose not too after he realized he still had 2 kids to raise..its more involved then that but he was so distraught a sudden, extreme choice was what he thought would help him. a complete change from the life that at the time was too painful. he chose to stay home and is doing much better. its been 2 yrs..