Mr T is going though a breakup. I sent him a picture of my Calvin Klein ad and he's gone all gay and giddy.

 

buuut ... seriously, picture yourself as a sundae ... sprinkles, cherries, chocolate syrup are all things that make the sundae better ...

but, the dessert is perfectly fine without them.




Lots of people "have to" have a significant other. When the relationship goes to shit, they can't function because to them, the relationship was the sundae ...
a good job with great pay was the cherry
a positive attitude and good personality was the sprinkles
a place of their own with nice things was the syrup


you gotta reverse your thinking, see relationships as an enhancement to your life, not the core of who you are.

 

i word in corporate security yes... not data i'm more in the employee fraud detection field. i dont like my job and i am not sure about my job security. I am still thinking about going to Africa to work in some of the family business but before i take that decision i am giving myself the time to figure out wether the break up is the reason i want to do that or is it what I really want to do.

 

Checking in and last day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

ah, gotcha.



Don't make any decisions right now. I almost sprung for a $40K car right after mine. That would have totally sucked ass in retrospect. Sleep on it ... again and again and again.

tell ya what, come this time ... say ... March 1, 2007 ... see where you stand. That's about half a year to make the biggest decision of your life so far.

 

I want to keep sleeping :wtc:

Going grocery shopping with my friend all morning.

 

...i'll take you up on the challenge h:

 

Rule #1:
sweep the knee.


Imma fold your ass up in 2.

 

Rule #2:
take the hit and land an immediate counter h:



i'll have you on the ground before you get to bend my knee h:

 

Finally checking in. Stayed out too late last night. :sleep: