29??

Shit.


I'll give you 20

 

This is long... from what I understand your in-laws are idiots who cant control their debt. Tell them to f*ck themselves. Done.

 

exactly. You are too nice man. You will be in debt yourself if you try to help them.

 

credit cards are unsecured its not like they are about to lose their house.

help how you can for now, take the other job.... then worry about helpin them.

 

yeah i still am taking the other job. i gotta still look out for myself and my well being.

 

the bro in law drove the M3 in which i paid for the most part on the monthly. for the last year. I am not paying anything anymore of his cars. I told him if he wanted to get another car he's paying for it himself and he better get a job

 

i didnt read the rest but so far i can see that paying a relative's bills = mucho lose

 

So you're paying for the M3 also? Shit. Take the keys to all the cars you've paid for, sell the ones that make the most sense to sell (The Z and M3), buy a car for you and give them the money, not going through anyone else(Your wife). Then set up a way for them to pay you back. Be clear its the last time you do this.

I understand your actions though. I, myself, would have a hard time telling them no and whatnot, but things have to happen. They'll get over it, they have no room to be mad at you, if thats what you're afraid of.

 

after reading this i learned one thing:

















i'm never getting married :nervous:

 

what's the rule, car cannot exceed 25% of yearly income?