she smokes :thumbsdown:

 

personally, i dont base my friendships on if someone smokes or something

 

yeah I hear ya. You said you smoke too so it isn't bad. But if you were a non smoker and you kissed a girl who smoked, you'd see it's like kissing an ash tray :ugh:

 

I'm not liking the smoking type myself. As a non-smoker, it is a big turn off.

Which I have done before. Hence the comment above.

 

even if i didnt smoke, i dont think i would think twice about kissing a girl who smokes

 

I felt the same way. Once I did it, well, now I feel differently.

 

no problem, it had to be said h:

 

ok dude i was in the same boat and told the girl that i liked her i have been really close to this girl sine i was a freshmen and liked her then i am pretty sure that she knew it but i just left it alone i was a nerd and she wasnt ha. so i left it alone and finally told her how i felt about six months ago and then just left it at that i still talk to her all the time and she doesnt mind at all and we still hang out all the time just like before but she has a bf and did then so give it a try man. but tell her dont try to make a move that may freak her out