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coming out straight

Old Sep 15, 2005 | 09:10 AM
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heard this on howard stern this morning
this guy claims he can turn gay people straight

what interested me is this part in red:

The underlying meaning and causes of homosexuality are presented. The hidden meanings of same-sex attractions are described: (1) need for same-sex parent's love, (2) need for gender identification, and (3) fear of intimacy with the opposite sex. The ten basic causes are detailed: (1) heredity, (2) temperament, (3) hetero-emotional wounds, (4) homo-emotional wounds, (5) family dynamics / sibling wounds, (6) body image wounds, (7) peer wounds, (8) sexual abuse, (9) cultural wounds, and (10) intrauterine influences and other factors. This tape is an excellent introduction for anyone who wishes to understand the causes of same-sex attractions.
http://www.gaytostraight.org/resources.asp

discuss and no gay bashing

EDIT*
forgot to mention he also thought no one is born gay

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Old Sep 15, 2005 | 09:13 AM
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What they are saying is the need for the attention from the father (if male) or the mother (if female) causes the homsexuality to surface.

Personally I could see that as being a possibility but I don't see it as being a major factor really.
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Old Sep 15, 2005 | 09:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Nightshade
What they are saying is the need for the attention from the father (if male) or the mother (if female) causes the homsexuality to surface.

Personally I could see that as being a possibility but I don't see it as being a major factor really.
I can see it being a factor for bringing out the sexuality if its already there, but not if it isnt. My father wasn't around, but im still straight, it just made me dislike my father.
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Old Sep 15, 2005 | 09:21 AM
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i'm straight and hardly saw my dad while growing up. he was always in foreign countries doing business.
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Old Sep 15, 2005 | 11:59 AM
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my teacher from 3rd & 4th grade - mr. garrison - didn't get much attention from his father which may reinforce this theory...hmmm
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Old Sep 15, 2005 | 12:01 PM
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I don't buy it at all. To me its like thinking that a program can make me go gay. No program in the world will make me love the cock.
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Old Sep 15, 2005 | 12:03 PM
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gay people are gay. straight people are straight. as far as im concerned, this isnt something people choose.

cant change gay people straight, cant make a straight person gay. period.
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Old Sep 15, 2005 | 01:09 PM
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I thought that homosexuals were gay partially because of genetics.
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Old Sep 15, 2005 | 01:22 PM
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The distinction between gay and straight is really way less black & white than our current society makes it out to be. But even now there's plenty of grey area. For example it's socially acceptable for two girls to make out with each other and just because they do, that doesn't prevent them from being considered totally straight and they like the cock. But two dudes make out and it's gross or something.

Back before someone or other got all huffy about classifying people who engaged in homosexual activities as a specific class, if you did something gay you were considered to have committed sodomy. It was an act that someone did on one or more instances, not a definition of the entire person.

This being born gay stuff seems more like the people who have been classified trying to shift personal responsibility away from themselves. They wouldn't need to shift blame of course, if they weren't being blamed to start with.

I personally have no problem with anyone hooking up with whoever they feel like doing it with (well, at least within the same species...), and I think we'd have far less problems if being gay or straight was considered just another preference, no different from liking blondes or brunettes.
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Old Sep 15, 2005 | 01:30 PM
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dont let the balls touch!!
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