Finnaly found a girl to love me!
BALLIN'
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From: Northern Virginia
Originally Posted by Tark
I know but i think the risk is very much worth it... I kind of expect to get my heart broken. I know that if it get more serious the family will be a prob. just ask Singh about these rich families! I guess i'll just enjoy it now without questioning too much. And if shit happened then I'll live through it i guess.
to give some backround on desi (indian) families.
- many families still believe in the cast system = super retarded, even to bring that trait over seas was the dumbest thing ever to do.
- when the girls family is rich - they would like to find a suitable guy who comes from a rich family and be of equivlent social statues - I.E. = girls parents are doctors, boys parents own a gas station or 2, have same amount of money, but it still wouldnt work out because the boys family is considered to be a lower social status because of the jobs the parents hold.
- connections - girls family is rich, boys family is rich, BUT, if boys family is not well known in community, no dice. usually the father of the daughter doesnt care about this, but its the mother that would have a problem.
there are so many more elements to this, which i personally think is bullshit. i dont think someones love for another should be judged based upon the social status of the family or for any other reason based on the fact that they are in love.
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Originally Posted by Singhg83
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to give some backround on desi (indian) families.
- many families still believe in the cast system = super retarded, even to bring that trait over seas was the dumbest thing ever to do.
- when the girls family is rich - they would like to find a suitable guy who comes from a rich family and be of equivlent social statues - I.E. = girls parents are doctors, boys parents own a gas station or 2, have same amount of money, but it still wouldnt work out because the boys family is considered to be a lower social status because of the jobs the parents hold.
- connections - girls family is rich, boys family is rich, BUT, if boys family is not well known in community, no dice. usually the father of the daughter doesnt care about this, but its the mother that would have a problem.
there are so many more elements to this, which i personally think is bullshit. i dont think someones love for another should be judged based upon the social status of the family or for any other reason based on the fact that they are in love.
to give some backround on desi (indian) families.
- many families still believe in the cast system = super retarded, even to bring that trait over seas was the dumbest thing ever to do.
- when the girls family is rich - they would like to find a suitable guy who comes from a rich family and be of equivlent social statues - I.E. = girls parents are doctors, boys parents own a gas station or 2, have same amount of money, but it still wouldnt work out because the boys family is considered to be a lower social status because of the jobs the parents hold.
- connections - girls family is rich, boys family is rich, BUT, if boys family is not well known in community, no dice. usually the father of the daughter doesnt care about this, but its the mother that would have a problem.
there are so many more elements to this, which i personally think is bullshit. i dont think someones love for another should be judged based upon the social status of the family or for any other reason based on the fact that they are in love.
BALLIN'
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From: Northern Virginia
Originally Posted by Tark
That's about it... I don't know her parents although supposedly my parents knows them. I just don't know how well i would be accepted.... cause we aint rich(well off but not rich) and her family is like ubber rich. I first thought she was one of those spoiled princess type but i was surprised that she is really very simple! I am just intimidated i guess and peeps i know keep giving me these insane estimates of there fortune I always tell them i dont want to know but you know how it is...
and thats the thing man, maybe her parents may not give a damn, if you are in a good place in your life, and she is too, it will work itself out. give it time.
i hope for the best man.
you motorboatin' s.o.b.
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From: Mexico, by Jaymar
Originally Posted by b16aEGcivic
Hello...welcome to the board...watch out for :deek: 
h:
h:unlike some of these other
who go overboard. 
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From: Bay Area, CA
Originally Posted by HondaKitten
That's cool. I hear about some things that go on around here, I was just wondering if any of you guys go. I would love to go to Cali for a meet!
To me, the whole "found a girl to love me" phrase seemed flawed. Then I read about your problem with staying loyal and I don't know what to think.
h: Good luck to you though.
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From: Westside til I die
Originally Posted by Derek
ahahaha, bish, I only hit on Janna. :fawk:
unlike some of these other
who go overboard.
unlike some of these other
who go overboard.
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