I'd tell her to kick rocks.

PEACE I'M OUTTA HEEEEEEERE! [/sandler]

 

If the accusing party has reason to believe, whether based on past experience or not, that the accused party has not actually moved on and there is a slight possibility that they will go back to them, then they have a valid arguement.

Again, its a lose-lose situation.

 

Stop. You know who i'm talking about.

 

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I don't know your situation anymore, nor do I assume to, so under a hypothetical situation this is what I think...like it or lump it.

 

That just means they are really insecure. My old boss, I was good friends with her daughter for a good year before she started dating her BF, to this day which is 3 or 4 years later..........he still hates me because he thinks I'm trying to nail his GF........he also doesn't like any of her guy friends and never trusts her.......he is just one of the most pathetic people I've ever met......out of HS, has no job and doesn't go to school and lives with his mom, i can really see the attraction huh?

Back on topic though, I would tell them to break it off because its not worth it to be with someone like that who isn't going to trust u and IMO a relationship should be about trust........so.......I would tell this person to break it off and go look for someone more mature and sure of themselves.

 

i talk to my ex sometimes. her current bf doesnt like it. we were together for a long time and just because the romantic relationship ended doesnt mean all ties have to be severed.

 

Well, my ex is in the same situation right now. We were together for two years, haven't been together for a few. She had a bf, so her and I don't talk as much, since he's not comfortable with it. I can understand where he's coming from, though. He knows about her and I, since he was friends with her before. First real love, so there's still some awkwardness between myself and her.

I mean, it sucks because she was one of the people I was closest to in my life. But.. that's still not the best scenario for her current bf. I know what it's like to be in that situation, which is why I don't contact her much. Both of us usually will send an email for our bdays, that's about it.

I'm not sure if anything has happened in their relationship, but from talking with her.. it didn't seem like it's very strong, more for convenience. But, I'm not about making waves for her, which her and I having an existing friendship would do.

 

what if my EX lives with me and my fiance? :reechy:

 

Those are the questions I was going to ask/say

It varies upon many factors... but usually, whichever the case, it takes the bigger person to be ok with your current gf/bf to speak/see their ex.

 

that's when you get someone to play wingman, preferably a taxi driver :rick: h: